"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I reached the point I was looking for so long

TheGambino

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I've been a big AFC 3 years ago with for example a girl I liked for years. I was in the friendzone big time. Got on the forum true another girl who hurt me 2years ago. I got on So Suave due her. I got on this forum and it opened my eyes. I started to be way more sexual, spin plates and very quickly make moves to see if a girl is interested or not. At the beginning I still got hurt by a few who throw'd mixed signals that got me still in their web. Girls who throw mixed signals and make it hard for me to meet up with is an easy next now. I cold approached 100-300 women now.

The more I approached women on the streets, in bars and in the clubs, it became a sport like this forum preaches. I went to Morocco twice and f8cked so many women by trully not giving a f8ck. I approach, small talk, touch make fun, if she likes it Ill take her home if she doesn't I bail that's it. I don't have a ego anymore when it comes to approaching and being rejected.

I became sexual, teasing and I appear interested in her(some girls were trully interesting though).

Now I stilll approach, spin and talk to many girls at the same time. In the weekends I go out with my friends and approach as soon as I see a attractive lady and make moves.

If they don't pick up the phone, flake, don't call me back, give me mixed signals it just doesn't effect me anymore. It doesn't matter how hot she is, howmuch she show'd interest and backed off again It just doesn't affect me. I became 100% outcome independant. I was a emotional white knight AFC and I became a DJ that deosn't give a flying f8ck there are 10000000000 women on the world. Flirt with them all. And the weirdest thing: Since I became outcome independant not giving a f8ck I got rejected way less. I actually have success the most of the time :box:

Wanna thank this forum and everyone of ya'll :)
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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TheGambino said:
I've been a big AFC 3 years ago with for example a girl I liked for years. I was in the friendzone big time. Got on the forum true another girl who hurt me 2years ago. I got on So Suave due her. I got on this forum and it opened my eyes. I started to be way more sexual, spin plates and very quickly make moves to see if a girl is interested or not. At the beginning I still got hurt by a few who throw'd mixed signals that got me still in their web. Girls who throw mixed signals and make it hard for me to meet up with is an easy next now. I cold approached 100-300 women now.

The more I approached women on the streets, in bars and in the clubs, it became a sport like this forum preaches. I went to Morocco twice and f8cked so many women by trully not giving a f8ck. I approach, small talk, touch make fun, if she likes it Ill take her home if she doesn't I bail that's it. I don't have a ego anymore when it comes to approaching and being rejected.

I became sexual, teasing and I appear interested in her(some girls were trully interesting though).

Now I stilll approach, spin and talk to many girls at the same time. In the weekends I go out with my friends and approach as soon as I see a attractive lady and make moves.

If they don't pick up the phone, flake, don't call me back, give me mixed signals it just doesn't effect me anymore. It doesn't matter how hot she is, howmuch she show'd interest and backed off again It just doesn't affect me. I became 100% outcome independant. I was a emotional white knight AFC and I became a DJ that deosn't give a flying f8ck there are 10000000000 women on the world. Flirt with them all. And the weirdest thing: Since I became outcome independant not giving a f8ck I got rejected way less. I actually have success the most of the time :box:

Wanna thank this forum and everyone of ya'll :)
This is the outcome that being a DJ is all about.

Tried to rep, but got: "You must spread some Reputation around before giving it to TheGambino again."
 

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You sir, you deserve a cookie for that. This is good news. At first you probably couldn't believe it is possible, and felt constantly frustrated.

TheGambino said:
I became 100% outcome independant.

Keep that mindset regarding everything. Money, wealth, job, etc.
 
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