"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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after trying everything to have a woman in my life, starting by changing my mindset, then my attitude and my style / body i guess it didnt work. maybe some guys like me are destined to not having a woman in their lifes, woman became so shallow and picky that i cant do anything to fight that. i'm not good looking so i guess i have to live without one, after all you still can be happy without one.

good luck to you guys :up:
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Blah blah blah your a whiny little *****. You clearly have deep inner game problens that is the cause of your problem with women. Not being good looking or whatever is only a problem if you THINK it is. Women are only shallow and picky if you can't conect with them or treally get to know them.

Um yeah you completely didn't deserve that and im a douchebag but whatever ^^
 
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NeedToImprove said:
after trying everything to have a woman in my life, starting by changing my mindset, then my attitude and my style / body i guess it didnt work. maybe some guys like me are destined to not having a woman in their lifes, woman became so shallow and picky that i cant do anything to fight that. i'm not good looking so i guess i have to live without one, after all you still can be happy without one.

good luck to you guys :up:

Quitting is for B1tches. If I would have quit a week ago I wouldn't have met the hottie I saw tonight. Never quit, that is AFC talk.
 

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What I like, is that even a bad example can be helpful. I was feeling a bit down tonight, but when I read NTI's post, I realized that I could be doing a he;; of a lot worse.

Damn, dude. You're going to give up that easy? And that's all you were here for, was to conveniently get a woman? I'm here because I want a more complete LIFE. The chicks are just one by-product of that.
 
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PrinceBeavis said:
What I like, is that even a bad example can be helpful. I was feeling a bit down tonight, but when I read NTI's post, I realized that I could be doing a he;; of a lot worse.

Damn, dude. You're going to give up that easy? And that's all you were here for, was to conveniently get a woman? I'm here because I want a more complete LIFE. The chicks are just one by-product of that.

Don't quit. If a loser like me can get laid anybody can. You have to start with the basics.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Getting a chick aint hard, if it was humans would be extinc by now. I think the problem is the harder you chase it the more it eludes you. You should just take a break, focus on your passions and then see where that leads to. I highly doubt you will be able to give up women forever. I'm just sick of seeing threads like these, they seem needy and attention seeking like they want people to say 'nahh dude don't quit your heaps good your just doing X wrong'. Did anyone successful ever quit? You'll be back, trust me, you'll be back.
 
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PrinceBeavis said:
Thanks man.

It's true. do you know what the basics are? Go with it.. I went 2 YEARS without even seeing a naked p/ssy. Then I got my sh!t together and at least tonight I'm feeling good.

You can get there and the pain is enormous, but you cannot quit.
 

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post a pic of yourself so we can see if your a qausimodo or not. :up:

btw. your a complete lame for even posting this thread. If you really feel that way you don't deserve a woman. More ***** for me!
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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MooseGod said:
2? Try 17! :D

I guess that really doesn't count...

No it doesn't. I didn't get laid until I was 18, so forgettaboutit.

The 2 years of no p/ssy came when I was in my 20's. And completely AFC.

Those days are over.
 

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Tacoblast said:
Yeah, go kill yourself, you little f@ggot.
That's not really constructive man, don't kick him when he's down.

To the OP:

Look, man. Women aren't as shallow as you make them out to be. It's just that they're very perceptive and they can almost literally smell your defeatist attitude and rock-bottom self-esteem from a mile away.

It's not 'cause you're weird and people hate you though...It's because YOU are a powerful entity. MAN. Master of his domain. You don't know it yet, but you have the power to influence everybody around you whether they like it or not. Right now you're just giving off a bad vibe, so people might be avoiding you like the plague.

It's okay. It happens to all of us. Anybody who says otherwise is a liar trying to protect their fragile ego. Let go of the ego.

You ever hear that Doors song "People are strange?" Google the lyrics if you haven't. It's true. As soon as you open your eyes to the wonderful world around you, you're going to look back on this time in your life and laugh.
 

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^^^^ sometimes some tough love is needed to get a man to man the fock up. Let his focking momma coddle him. don't ask other grown arse men to wipe his fockin tears. Hell his mamma will probably tell him to stop being a little biyatch. I remember complaining once about my relationship problems and my own mother told me to stop whining and be a man. If women don't want to here that ish, why would grown arse men?
 

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My Name is Nobody said:
It's true. do you know what the basics are? Go with it.. I went 2 YEARS without even seeing a naked p/ssy. Then I got my sh!t together and at least tonight I'm feeling good.

You can get there and the pain is enormous, but you cannot quit.

I'll tell you what keeps me going....my friends, and even when I feel like that fails (which it really doesn't), what keeps me going is the 1969 Chevy Camaro that I inherited from my brother, that is just waiting to be restored.

Chick or no chick, I'm going to build and restore that car with my very own hands.

What's the difference between success and failure? Finding a reason...even if it's just one reason, to stay in the game. :cool:
 

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Are you kidding me man. First of all anyone and i mean anyone can get a women.. There are plenty of fat women out there that are beggin for some attention so dont tell me you can get a women. Also you dont bad if the pictures i saw were indeed your pictures. As a matter of fact in the pics with the shades on you look better than 50-60 percent of people on this msg board.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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PrinceBeavis said:
I'll tell you what keeps me going....my friends, and even when I feel like that fails (which it really doesn't), what keeps me going is the 1969 Chevy Camaro that I inherited from my brother, that is just waiting to be restored.

Chick or no chick, I'm going to build and restore that car with my very own hands.

What's the difference between success and failure? Finding a reason...even if it's just one reason, to stay in the game. :cool:

Sounds like you are better off than me.. I wish I had a 69' Camaro! Fix that thing up and pimp it out, and you'll be in good shape.
 

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Prodigy746 said:
Are you kidding me man. First of all anyone and i mean anyone can get a women.. There are plenty of fat women out there that are beggin for some attention so dont tell me you can get a women. Also you dont bad if the pictures i saw were indeed your pictures. As a matter of fact in the pics with the shades on you look better than 50-60 percent of people on this msg board.
sometimes you gotta get a starter ho just to get your confidence up. just to know that you can pull something and just to keep your pecker wet. later, upgrade. climb up the ladder.
 
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Listen, I have been dumped twice in the last couple months...

I was dumped New Years eve... did I quit? HELL NO. I went out and found a better girl.

She dumped me. Did I quit? HELL NO.. I went out and found another one!

Will she dump me too? Maybe, but I have learned alot about keeping a woman around. NEVER go AFC. Quitting is AFC.

Maybe I will get dumped again. But that means I will go find someone even better.

I feel like I am reaching the stage where I will be the one doing the dumping, not the other way around.

Never quit.
 

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u say women are shallow, but as you say that you are referring only to the good looking women, and you yourself are being just as shallow by neglecting the ugly women

just as you neglect unattractive women, if you are an unattractive man (i'm not just talking physically, i mean in life, how you carry yourself, how you dress and act) then how can you expect them to notice you?

to get the woman of your dreams, you have to become the man of hers.
 

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Tacoblast said:
Yeah, go kill yourself, you little f@ggot.
Wow, you sound the type of guy EVERYBODY loves!:D

To OP, suffer now and live the rest of your life as a champion.:up:

Main aim of the game is to improve yourself for YOU. Do that, people will see self esteem and confidence pouring from you, and women will want to be a part of your fantastic life.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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