"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I probably messed it up

crimsonclockwork

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Im not going to make this a long ass afc story we see every once in awhile. I want to know if I messed up. Here is the scenario: Friend had a get together (not enough people for a party), and I was joking around and all. Pretty much I was the only one cracking the jokes. See this girl who I know very well and we sat together, blah blah, touched and all that. Sorta kino, but mainly just her sittin on me. I had to leave, and said something like... what no ones gonna walk me out to my car? and she came along. We went outside and talked, and then... I fvcking hugged her. UGH! Anyways, I think she was kind of disapointed, but I pulled off a C&F, and asked her to do something tommorow... She said she would cancel her plans with this girl and do something with me. Give me advice. Did I totally screw up? Can this be salvaged? Thanks.
 

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You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

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crimsonclockwork

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Any other comments? Exactly how could I use this me hugging her to my advantage, but really I pussied out?:eek:
 

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relax, dont worry aout **** like that, if she said shed meet u then you did good.

just dont ***** out all the time.
 

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Re: Re: I probably messed it up

Originally posted by GigaloDJ
Nah man check that out. It's like she not doin bro's before ho's. Only, uh, it's the other way around kinda hah.
Uh, they have their own saying:

Chicks before di*ks
 

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I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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