"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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i probably got the worst game on here!

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alright guys listen up looks isnt the issue with me my game is a disgrace.. i tend think that if i call a girl once and then continue calling i will look desperate but are guys suppose to do alot of claling with girls?? also my boy at work seems to have text messages and everything of girls at work where he talks about having sex, how come i cant do this and have this kind of game.. i get hit on twice as much, but he pulls in more???
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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So pimp its scary

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At least you get hit on... suggests you got looks to your advantage.

Do yourself a favor, start with the DJ bible link at the bottom of the page, this will give you a starting point (yes it's a long read... suck it up and read it, you'll be thankfull).

You probly only really need to learn how to escalate things, by the sound of your 'problem'.

And, btw, no matter how bad your game is... I would put money that before I found this site I was at least 3 times more pathertic in game.
 
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Cuz you're not giving them enough attention...
 
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