"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I prefer to go it alone.

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Who else here goes it alone? I prefer to go into a city that I'm not too familiar with (and that people are not familiar with me) and try to find a chick to bang. This setup usually gets my curiousity up and I am usually better when I'm in a curious state so that I can explore new places while at the same time try to lay a bang. The unknown and risk is what gets my juices flowing for the fight to come. What do like about going it alone and not having to have someone tag along and be a ball n' chain to your efforts or direction (you don't have to ask them if they want to go such n' such place, you just go)?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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it really depends on what kind of friends you have, and what fun means to you...
 
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Well, I dont really have any friends - my parents are the only people close to me and they are c0ckblockers so, technically, I'm really on my own. But, even if I had the choice, I'd prefer to go at it alone, because I agree you dont feel that ball and chain with other people.
 

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Luke Skywalker said:
Well, I dont really have any friends - my parents are the only people close to me and they are c0ckblockers so, technically, I'm really on my own.
man, it's always nice to have you around when I'm feeling like a loser.
 

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Ok I went it alone last night in a new place, a low-class kind of place (tats, short, dogs mostly but some doable and young grads). I'm there observing a couple of guys sarging and getting flat-out rejected (God love him though, at least he's trying Very hard at keeping talking to make up for his lack of looks making the best with style, some guys got it really hard because of looks). So I'm there, at the bar, and the women are coming around ordering around me as usual squeezing into me (short, young and one old). Ok one young short one's got my hand wedged in-between her ass cheeks (a skirt) and God I'm acting like nothing's happening for 20+ minutes with my hand practically in her ass (gross), I keep lifting my drink along her back up through her hair and dropping it down back to her ass (and she doesn't mind still standing there talking to her other 3 girlfriends). Next an older thin blond comes in front of me and orders looking at the TV and shows her interest in me by asking if I like racing to which I say, "No not really but I should because of my profession" and she asks me what my profession is and I say, "Well, I travel a lot" and she asks me question after question like this all the while I'm being vague building the mystery about myself (I'll never tell her what I do) and for the rest of the night I'm talking up this totally entranced "older" woman about 3 years older than me. I'll tell you the rest later, I have to go.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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