have not felt like such an idiot, nor have I been so used and lied to before. Ironically, there is already a thread here about Russian girls.
I posted some threads about this chick here before, how couple of months ago after we dated for 3 months, I found out that she went over to her co-workers place when she told me she went to see her GF. I called her out on it, we had a fight, stopped talking for a week, then we decided to be friends.
One thing led to another, we end up making out again, hanging all the time and get into a relationship for another 2 months.
The thing is, after the first instance with her over that guy, I had hard time trusting the girl. The reason I let her come back, because after 3 months I nver told her I am serious with her and always told her I am not her bf. So it was somewhat unfair of me to tell her who to see or not, but I was more upset about the fact she lied.
I noticed that every time the guy would text her when she was around me, she would lie to me, or out of no where say something like "Oh, emily is so funny, she just said she had this dream and that..." When in fact it was the guy that messaged her. Before being sure of it, I'd call her out on it again and she would say "I cant believe you dont trust me, after everything that happened, you think I would ever do that to you again?"
She would text him/call him without ever telling me. Then on new years we go to a party. On the way back I am with her in the back seat and the guy texts her "You're with that guy aren't you?" I ask her whats that all about, we almost started another fight in the back seat about how I never trust her, she explained me he is just a friend and she doesn't see him that way anymore, but they are good friends and work together.
After that instance, we'd get into more fights about why she is lying when she talks to this guy, or when he texts her. And she kept saying "I dont want you to think less of me", "Its a sensitive subject" , "He is just a friend and you have no reason no to trust me..". This would get into arguments, long and annoying arguments, mostly because of my temper. I should have just walked away at that point.
Mid month of January, she calls me and tells me she is not happy because we fight alot and she is not ready to be serious with anyone. I said ok, lets just be friends. I was upset, she blew up my phone 8 times the next day, I finally picked up and she cried about how much she is falling in love with me and she is not ready, and how much she needs me in her life....yada yada.
We decided to be friends, but she would keep on with the lies about the guy. Reasonably I'd get jealous. Call her out on it, and we'd fight some more.
It all blew up in my face after the superbowl. I go home she calls me around midnight she was getting off work. Asked me how Im doing and said she was going to see her friends at a bar, I said is he going to be there too and she lied again. So I had the guys phone # from months before when I got pissed at her, I called him. He said she was right there with him outside the bar.
So I called her, talked to her, talked to the guy, she got pissed and left. We ended up talking, she said that yes she is interested in the guy, he is the reason she broke up with me and a week before she went over to his place drunk when she told me she hung out with her gf instead.
Monday we talk again, there was really nothing left to talk about, I was not trying to salvage anything but just to understand how can she be such a liar and manipulative person with no remorse of what others may feel. How could she lead me on like that and make me feel like the bad guy everytime I'd call her out on her BS when I was always right. We kept talking normally, till she had to go, but I was heated up and kept calling her while she was witha friend, I probably called 20 times in 20 minutes, she would pick up and tell me to **** off, till she changed her phone #.
I have a bad temper, so I did to her what she did to me few months ago and showed up to her work. She works as a waitress at a popular restaurant. I tried to talk and see how anothe person can treat someone so wrong, obviously she was being a b!tch. I was drinking a draft beer, got pissed at her after 10 minutes conversation and poured in her face and walked away.
Not the proudest moment of my life, but I do not regret it.
I just want to have the power to walk away next time when I see a girl is lying to me over a guy and know that it cannot be innocent.
She hurt me and on top of it tried to make me the bad guy and still does. Lied to me for months, tried to flip the "you dont trust me" card on me everytime, told me all the I love you's and you're the best thing ever, while lying about some other guy.
I posted some threads about this chick here before, how couple of months ago after we dated for 3 months, I found out that she went over to her co-workers place when she told me she went to see her GF. I called her out on it, we had a fight, stopped talking for a week, then we decided to be friends.
One thing led to another, we end up making out again, hanging all the time and get into a relationship for another 2 months.
The thing is, after the first instance with her over that guy, I had hard time trusting the girl. The reason I let her come back, because after 3 months I nver told her I am serious with her and always told her I am not her bf. So it was somewhat unfair of me to tell her who to see or not, but I was more upset about the fact she lied.
I noticed that every time the guy would text her when she was around me, she would lie to me, or out of no where say something like "Oh, emily is so funny, she just said she had this dream and that..." When in fact it was the guy that messaged her. Before being sure of it, I'd call her out on it again and she would say "I cant believe you dont trust me, after everything that happened, you think I would ever do that to you again?"
She would text him/call him without ever telling me. Then on new years we go to a party. On the way back I am with her in the back seat and the guy texts her "You're with that guy aren't you?" I ask her whats that all about, we almost started another fight in the back seat about how I never trust her, she explained me he is just a friend and she doesn't see him that way anymore, but they are good friends and work together.
After that instance, we'd get into more fights about why she is lying when she talks to this guy, or when he texts her. And she kept saying "I dont want you to think less of me", "Its a sensitive subject" , "He is just a friend and you have no reason no to trust me..". This would get into arguments, long and annoying arguments, mostly because of my temper. I should have just walked away at that point.
Mid month of January, she calls me and tells me she is not happy because we fight alot and she is not ready to be serious with anyone. I said ok, lets just be friends. I was upset, she blew up my phone 8 times the next day, I finally picked up and she cried about how much she is falling in love with me and she is not ready, and how much she needs me in her life....yada yada.
We decided to be friends, but she would keep on with the lies about the guy. Reasonably I'd get jealous. Call her out on it, and we'd fight some more.
It all blew up in my face after the superbowl. I go home she calls me around midnight she was getting off work. Asked me how Im doing and said she was going to see her friends at a bar, I said is he going to be there too and she lied again. So I had the guys phone # from months before when I got pissed at her, I called him. He said she was right there with him outside the bar.
So I called her, talked to her, talked to the guy, she got pissed and left. We ended up talking, she said that yes she is interested in the guy, he is the reason she broke up with me and a week before she went over to his place drunk when she told me she hung out with her gf instead.
Monday we talk again, there was really nothing left to talk about, I was not trying to salvage anything but just to understand how can she be such a liar and manipulative person with no remorse of what others may feel. How could she lead me on like that and make me feel like the bad guy everytime I'd call her out on her BS when I was always right. We kept talking normally, till she had to go, but I was heated up and kept calling her while she was witha friend, I probably called 20 times in 20 minutes, she would pick up and tell me to **** off, till she changed her phone #.
I have a bad temper, so I did to her what she did to me few months ago and showed up to her work. She works as a waitress at a popular restaurant. I tried to talk and see how anothe person can treat someone so wrong, obviously she was being a b!tch. I was drinking a draft beer, got pissed at her after 10 minutes conversation and poured in her face and walked away.
Not the proudest moment of my life, but I do not regret it.
I just want to have the power to walk away next time when I see a girl is lying to me over a guy and know that it cannot be innocent.
She hurt me and on top of it tried to make me the bad guy and still does. Lied to me for months, tried to flip the "you dont trust me" card on me everytime, told me all the I love you's and you're the best thing ever, while lying about some other guy.
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