"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I posted an ad on craigslist... look at this reply!

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I just posted a normal ad on craigslist.. NOT in the sex section, in the dating section. Look at this reply I just got. Pretty sick.. I'm not bi and I hope her friend isn't a dude.



"hot 19 yrs old here looking for fun in bed only if a guy can come over , bi or curious guy is a plus and if u can meet and do my bestfriend first, then u and me alone at my house ..send me ur pic too.."

her pic:

http://img80.imageshack.us/img80/1164/babeyb0.gif
 
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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LOLOL. Good luck with that. I think you got a man or a troll on your hands. That add is designed to pull in guys...do you really think a hot 19 year old needs to get on craigslist to look for anonamous hookups?

Do you know any woman who writes like that? It sounds like male fantasy writing....

still...try it and report back. Let us know what happens.
 
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You know the old saying "if it sound to good to be true...". I actually hope it is real for you but doubtful because theres a lot of bogus stuff on craiglist. I think Warrior74 got it right because of the bi/curious guy part. It sounds like the old bait (the picture) and switch and if you respond okay lets meet, you end up meeting a guy on the other end.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I realize it's probably fake and I got a little over-excited. I'm going to reply in a calm qualifying manner.

You never know though, some girls get their freak on over craigslist.
 
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AKA FLEX said:
Probably just a queer looking for penus pics.
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I never understood why guys send pics of their d!ck to girls they don't even know.

Why? I have never gotten the urge to do that.
 
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AKA FLEX said:
Probably just a queer looking for penus pics.
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Explain to "her" that you are white and if "she" asks for a penis pic, send "her" a pic of a big ol' black one.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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AKA FLEX was right. I'm pretty sure it was a f@g posing as a girl. "She" kept saying if I came over and screwed her male friend, I could then have her.

Disgusting. Damn weirdos.
 
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dude this is a guy wanting to do a "curious" straight guy. notice you have to "do" the GUY first. Then guess what? The girl has to go babysit and you will never lay eyes on her. It's a scam.
 
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I am aware of that. I hate myself and want to die.
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I hope you're kidding.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Mavrick said:
I hope you're kidding.
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Don't worry it was a joke. However, I'm not very proud I got excited enough to post about this incident. I really need to get out more.
 
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online stuff always scares me.. i stay away from online dating.
 
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online stuff always scares me.. i stay away from online dating.
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I don't have a problem with it but I have never had any luck with the free sites like Craigslist. Match.com is p/ssy galore but unfortunately I've gone through all the females in my area so I need a new identity.
 
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dude I responded once as experiment on craigslist at night like after 12- 2 am. to girls ads, and I got spam mail like crazy.

I remember a while back on something similar to girl and do her bi friend thing, then I got an email from some lunatic guy wanting to drool over my ****.

I got freaked out but I bet AFCguys like in that skit of chappelle show where hey were all hanging out and saw tranns. LoL funny stuff but.

Hell ! no! I wouldnt do anything thing like that. but It's a trail to get guys all into the fact they are aroused and then some guy wants to come over to finish you up like a borat massage LoL.

Distgusting! Gross!

I posted also myself as a guy looking meet someone to chill out and no response , then as a tantric sex toy and I got spamed again with porn sites and dating sites like crazy.

I think missed connections is the rare part where there is actual people posting, I think.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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