I pose this question to the MM forum

[backbreaker]

I'm just curious as to everyone's mindset. Seriously.

I know this dude named kevin. he's 24 years old. he works at the golden corel and at a steakhouse as a dish washer. He is an aspiring rap artist. He's a convicted felon as well, but he's not what i would call a thug in any way shape or form he plays one on TV. He's actually a pretty good worker. He shows up and does his jobs(s) no questions asked.


Anyway this dude has a GF and has a baby by the girl. the baby is what like 3 years old. The baby momma.. isn't ugly. she's about a 6 in my book. not something i would marry or even date but i mean considering this dude is where he is in life I mean, beggers can't be choosers.


Anyway, this dude is living rent free right now. Spends all his money on weed and clothes. Barley pays any money for the kid. Barley spends time with the kid. Now he's trying to talk the girl into getting them an apartment so they can be together. he isn't even giving her any money for the apartment lol. he just wants to live under the roof with her. and she's doing it!

Here's the question I have for the MM forum. Could you live like this? On the outside this dude is living the DJ dream. he has a cute girl on his arm, who is crazy about him. he doesn't put any effort whatsoever into the relationship and is has his girl.


I.. I Just could not bring myself to be that irresponsible, even if I tried to be. Its just not possible. He irks me. He's like a spoiled child whining whenever people make him act like an adult.

Could you live like this guy even I guaranteed you a solid HB6?

 

[Colossus]

He's not a man, he's a boy. The DJ dream?? I thought that involved taking total ownership for your life and being a self-sufficient individual who lives the way he pleases. This dude is living comfortably, but on a WOMAN'S dime. Weak.

Any male can squirt seed into a girl and procreate. It takes a MAN to own his responsibilities and make the necessary sacrifices.

 

[Bible_Belt]

It sounds like my life.

 

[Ballie57]

It sounds like that is the norm now days. My nephew was the same, sponging on his mom, could not hold down a job - until she kicked him out and his old man sorted him out.

My niece's ex was the same - no ambition at all. I think partly it is their upbringing but modern society especially with affirmative action makes it extremely difficult for the youngsters to find a job that pays enough for them to support a family.

Us older guys were lucky, army sorted us out, and work and study loans were easy to get. When I look back to how irresponsible I was in my twenties, just as well I had the mental ability and natural gifts to become an engineer.

My son is different to these lighties - he is 25, cumn laude in Theology and now a youth pastor at a big church in Cape Town. My daughter @ 21 is an IT expert. Well, they were brought up right my my ex wife and me.

 

[MatureDJ]

He's a convicted felon as well, but he's not what i would call a thug in any way shape or form

I guess the state has thought otherwise ...

 

[LiveFreeX]

DJ Dream?

Sounds like a nightmare.

 

[Married Buried]

Just wait until she gets tired of him, leaves him and wants 500 a month child support. When he can't pay the judge puts him in jail until he finds a job then gets jail with work release.

It's coming, only a matter of time. I bet he's a whack rapper too.

 

[backbreaker]

I guess the state has thought otherwise ...

got caught with some bars. he's not what i would consider dangerous

I bet he's a whack rapper too.

I'd rather listen to a CD with 13 tracks of someone putting their fingernails to a chalkboard

 

[5string]

Wonder how much they get in food stamps and other assistance?

 

[Solomon]

I'm just curious as to everyone's mindset. Seriously.

I know this dude named kevin. he's 24 years old. he works at the golden corel and at a steakhouse as a dish washer. He is an aspiring rap artist. He's a convicted felon as well, but he's not what i would call a thug in any way shape or form he plays one on TV. He's actually a pretty good worker. He shows up and does his jobs(s) no questions asked.


Anyway this dude has a GF and has a baby by the girl. the baby is what like 3 years old. The baby momma.. isn't ugly. she's about a 6 in my book. not something i would marry or even date but i mean considering this dude is where he is in life I mean, beggers can't be choosers.


Anyway, this dude is living rent free right now. Spends all his money on weed and clothes. Barley pays any money for the kid. Barley spends time with the kid. Now he's trying to talk the girl into getting them an apartment so they can be together. he isn't even giving her any money for the apartment lol. he just wants to live under the roof with her. and she's doing it!

Here's the question I have for the MM forum. Could you live like this? On the outside this dude is living the DJ dream. he has a cute girl on his arm, who is crazy about him. he doesn't put any effort whatsoever into the relationship and is has his girl.


I.. I Just could not bring myself to be that irresponsible, even if I tried to be. Its just not possible. He irks me. He's like a spoiled child whining whenever people make him act like an adult.

Could you live like this guy even I guaranteed you a solid HB6?

Back before "The Game" I use to be baffled by this. Because I see shyt like this all the time not just 6's but even solid 8's who would be with deadbeats and these women had shyt going on but the dude they had were losers.

I use to think it was the "Thug Loving" that was being spewed on the radio 10 years ago and to a point I was right but anywho I have a co-worker who is a Minneapolis 4. She has a dude who is a 6, good shape nice abs etc but strong face. The guy works at subway and has 3 kids by 3 different women (she is the third). She makes decent money for what she does but it's not enough to support their two kids so now he has to get a night job and quit subway. The guy has babymama drama with the other women and there's been plenty of times my co-worker has been heard yelling at him while we were dealing with clients.

I see this all the time. I wouldn't wanna be a dude like this sure you got free pu$$y, smoke weed and play video games but you're a slave. These women actually have these men in check. The reason why these women don't kick these guys out is because these dudes know how to "throw down" believe it or not but it's hard for a woman to find a guy who can satisfy her in bed. A lot of men either don't have the sexual prowess or stamina and most of these guys tend to have both my theory is probably due to high testosterone. This is why certain women you can treat the like shyt but as long as you give her good dicyk she will come back....

I use to feel sorry for the women and jealous of those guys. Now I just laugh they deserve each other

 

[backbreaker]

you are right about the women really running the show ****.

for the most part, he plays like he has her by the strings, and he's fvcking her no doubt, but when she puts her foot down, he will get his ass in line. he was taking all the money and buying **** and she eventaully told him to give him his card that his check gets loaded on. now this motherfvcker got go to go his GF and ask her for cigerette money lol. she got tired of him blowing ALL their money. now he got a second job that's his kick it money abut his full time job goes directly to her.

what a way to live.

 

[Warrior74]

I've known very few thugs and "users" who weren't emotional children when it comes to women. The guy that lays up in his girlfriends house smoking weed and playing xbox have always been some of the most emotional guys I know.

The few drug dealers I know who were stone cold with women were pretty much that way with everyone and only brought out the charm when it suited them. They were the guys with bank. The guys like your guy BB may have some good game, good looks or the good sex, but they have weak frames. They haven't done anything to be who they want to be in life. If your example became a multimillionaire rapper tomorrow, I doubt he will be kowtowing to this woman. If he does, well...betas gotta beta.

 

[London NATURAL]

If that's the DJ dream, f*ck that.

His castle is built of sand.