"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I played it cool and smooth, I got the digits, but how important are subtleties?

uuuhhhwuzupmanye

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Hey all,

I'm new here.

I met a girl at a bar the other night. She was about a HB 9 or 9.5. This girl was HOT. I was actually trying to make another girl jealous but I soon forgot about that. When I walked up to the bar, she asked me, "Are you cutting in line?" I answered immediately without thinking about it, "No, just trying to get close to ya." Now if given the chance again, I might not have used those exact words (maybe a tad creepy), but she responded well because of how plainly I said it. We made small talk and then she bid me a good night. I stood there for a sec and then found her and told her to give me her phone number. She did. We talked some more and by the end she said very boldly, "Call me." That should have been the end of it!

My friends told me to approach her yet again and ask her if she needed a ride (she was kinda wandering around outside). After some from coercion from their part (I didn't think it was necessary), I went up and asked her and of course she didn't so I left once again feeling slightly more awkward than I did before, especially b/c she was talking to some dude.

I called her tonight but no answer. Now I know that it doesn't mean much but I feel that she won't call me back just because of that last interaction. My question is, do girls pay attention to those minute details? Does it affect the way they feel even though we had great convo earlier? When considering a guy, do you think they overanalyze just like guys. Or is it easier for them, knowing immediately feel about the situation? What are your thoughts? Please chime in :wave:

Thanks
- uuuhhhwuzupmayne
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

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PDubb75

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Welcome to the forum, and nice name.

Going up and asking if she needed a ride was a bad move. That was technically the third time you approached her in 1 night. That comes off as desperate, and hate to say it, but probably ruined your chance.

Brush it off and learn from the mistake.
 

bigneil

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If she was standing alone looking worried outside then sure, maybe offer a ride. But if she's talking to another guy? Your friends are dorks!

Nice job on getting the digits, but the key afterward is escaping (hopefully with a cheek kiss) before you blow it.
 
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