I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Apparently someone has a lack imagination...let's a take a look-see at my post again.Flabbergasped? said:Lol, everclear with f*ck you up so fast. Be wary.
If you want some strong stuff, go for vodka or some other alcoholic equivalent (Skyy is always nice), but don't take pure rubbing alcohol like everclear and jam it down your throat...
I don't drink, btw
You could pour half a bottle into each bucket, and pour the gallon of OJ and KA in each one, and every one will be ****ed up by the end of the party.1 bottle of Everclear(190-proof, 95% alcohol)
1 gallon of Orange Juice
1 Gallon of Kool-Aid
2 buckets
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.