"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I Plan on throwing a huge party...IDEAS?

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Any ideas on things to do, "beverages", music, indoor stuff, outdoor stuff.

This is my "Evan is Free" party, because i'm getting off house arrest, and a few friends and i plan on making this a big ass bash. Multiple schools will probably show up, I want this to be the big ass bash, none of those gay little "oh this is a nice party" type thing. big. wild. crazy. ideas?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Check the threads - there was some good advice for throwing a party about 2 weeks ago.
 

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Ah yes. The good old search option. Forgot all about that thing.

Afterschock, hell, if people from all over the world start comin', that'll be a party for the ages.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Assuming you dont completely live in a rat pissed hellhole you got 3 ingrediants : music, food, drinks. I dont know your budget but unless you got some deep pockets(and can afford to buy me a plane ticket- C'mon economy woukd do :D ) you really got to go as in house/homebrew as you can considering all the people coming over.

Legal issues aside go for ethanol/juice and make sure to take the meths out or better yet shell out a few bucks and ferment something yourself (beleive me, people will drink nearly anything with alcahol in it).

Potato's have been a world staple for a long time and hash browns or just fries and chips cant go wrong. I'm a bit of a gourment buff so remember it's :wash, boil THEN deep fry.

Music, hard one allways. But it's a party so you want something on the girlie side. If possible have a couple cd's full of mp3's to keep things fresh and that way you can change if you get a bad reaction. R&B generally goes down well as well as trance. If this hapens around dark consider a sort of "drifty" tune. Just google and you'll get some good stuff (some anime websites have good sound for free).

Goes without saying but you probably want some 'security' to break up small scraps that ruin the mood. For the finishing touches try good kethcup or peenut sauce (yea, 11 years in holland :p).

Good luck man!
 

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Yeah, right now I think we might have the party out by a lake. The guy whos property it is supposedly doesn't really care. I'm thinking we're going to have stuff like this:

Bonfire
Volleyball (If theres a sand bank by the lake)
Swimming
Camping Overnight
Drinks (Both Alcoholic and Non)
Music

Anything else?
 

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Skilla_Staz said:
Yeah, right now I think we might have the party out by a lake. The guy whos property it is supposedly doesn't really care. I'm thinking we're going to have stuff like this:

Bonfire
Volleyball (If theres a sand bank by the lake)
Swimming
Camping Overnight
Drinks (Both Alcoholic and Non)
Music

Anything else?
Food.
 

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Oh yeah. Forogt to mention that we're going to get people to bring their grills and have a BBQ thing goin on.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Simple.

Half Barrel of Coors Light
100 Red Party Cups
A few ping pong balls
Damn good music
Some bacardi razz for the girls
50 of your closest friends
Cleaning supplies for the next morning. Probably like a rake and garbage bags for the guys yard.

Get a big table and get some beer pong going.

Also, have a good plan for running from the cops.
 

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Skilla_Staz said:
Any ideas on things to do, "beverages", music, indoor stuff, outdoor stuff.

This is my "Evan is Free" party, because i'm getting off house arrest, and a few friends and i plan on making this a big ass bash. Multiple schools will probably show up, I want this to be the big ass bash, none of those gay little "oh this is a nice party" type thing. big. wild. crazy. ideas?
Dude invite me!PM me with your phone number or ill give you mine!
 

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1 bottle of Everclear(190-proof, 95% alcohol)
1 gallon of Orange Juice
1 Gallon of Kool-Aid
2 buckets
1 pound of marijuana
about 50 blunts

Expect not to remember much the next day.

umm...music-wise, it depends on what type of party you're having. The White Stripes are what I'm into recently. Pink Floyd also.

Strobe lights and a fog-machine are a must.
 

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You like One Piece?!? I love that show, my favorite one ever besides DragonBall/ DragonBallZ. I'm serious! Can I come?
 

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To all of you guys asking to be invited. The party is in Nebraska. If you want to come all the way down here for a party, be my guests.


Arsinel. Your favorite show is DragonBall Z? Oh dear. Also, who's talking about one piece?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Monkey D. Luffy said:
1 bottle of Everclear(190-proof, 95% alcohol)
1 gallon of Orange Juice
1 Gallon of Kool-Aid
2 buckets
1 pound of marijuana
about 50 blunts

Expect not to remember much the next day.

umm...music-wise, it depends on what type of party you're having. The White Stripes are what I'm into recently. Pink Floyd also.

Strobe lights and a fog-machine are a must.
Lol a pound bro? You only need an ounce or so to roll 56 Blunts (using jersey/york weight of .5 equalling a dime), a pound is over kill.

But seriously man, the first thing you should make sure to do, is make sure the guy is cool with it, and that any authority that might see it will be cool with it. I cannot tell you how many house parties had so much potentialw ith so many people there and everyons drunk and having a good time and *bam*, the persons mom wants everyone to leave cuz she has to go somewhere, or something equally stupid. Always amke sure that your location is secure, otherwise you're going to get ****ed in the end.

Also, yea get some beer pong going, some drinks, and food (BBQ at night seems hot), and let it get going.
 

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Arsinel said:
You like One Piece?!? I love that show, my favorite one ever besides DragonBall/ DragonBallZ. I'm serious! Can I come?
hell yeah, One Piece owns all.




 

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pooparu said:
Lol a pound bro? You only need an ounce or so to roll 56 Blunts (using jersey/york weight of .5 equalling a dime), a pound is over kill.

But seriously man, the first thing you should make sure to do, is make sure the guy is cool with it, and that any authority that might see it will be cool with it. I cannot tell you how many house parties had so much potentialw ith so many people there and everyons drunk and having a good time and *bam*, the persons mom wants everyone to leave cuz she has to go somewhere, or something equally stupid. Always amke sure that your location is secure, otherwise you're going to get ****ed in the end.

Also, yea get some beer pong going, some drinks, and food (BBQ at night seems hot), and let it get going.
I don't know about you, but I put 3-7 grams in a blunt.

Alright, maybe a half pound then.
 

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I'm not supplying any weed. I don't smoke. If they want to bring their own sh*t, whatever.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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