"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I picked up €10 from the ground in front of my date lol

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I was clubbing with this hb8 after our drinks at a bar last week. I know her for years but I asked her out always felt she had some interest and she said cool.

A mutual friend laughed and pointed a 10 euro bill at the ground. She said oh lol 10 euros uhmm why not pick it up? Otherwise someone else will. Afterwards i know it would be better if i said 'How about you pick it up and buy us all drinks' but I didnt. I was a bit drunk and went to pick it up with a big smirk on my face. Two other girls were in front of me and saw it, felt no shame I dont care. free money
I offered them drinks afterwards ofcourse (before aswel..).

Was she testing me? Just wondering.

Date went perfect, though I asked her out again and she gave me the 'we can go out but my schedule is very busy atm so I can't plan now' replied with 'text me when your free'

I dont care I would pick it up anyway lol but obv I wanna know if this could have impact on her interest level and value for me :whistle:

She is sweet, good looking and high quality if I compare her to other chicks Ive seen and dated. She respects my time, has a good reputation (same bf for years broke up now tho) and well educated
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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TheGambino said:
I dont care I would pick it up anyway lol but obv I wanna know if this could have impact on her interest level and value for me :whistle:
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Wanting to know this over a small thing like that, you've already lost. Sorry bro
 
Çharismo

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It's only a big deal if you make it a big deal.

You reek of desperation because of posting this.

Pursue other women and don't put all your eggs in one basket.

By the way what the fack do you mean that she is educated!?!?
 
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Çharismo said:
It's only a big deal if you make it a big deal.

You reek of desperation because of posting this.

Pursue other women and don't put all your eggs in one basket.

By the way what the fack do you mean that she is educated!?!?
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Don't mind this guy TheGambino, he's obviously just here to run people over to feel better about himself, his posts reek of frustration. :up:
 
backseatjuan

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10 euros is not big money? I bet it's worth at least two drinks. And you did absolutely right by using them, I had a similar situation with money, I assumed it's someone else's and gave it to them, I won absolutely nothing with that. She'll come around when she gets free from fvcking other dudes, and you'll see each other again, cheer up.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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10 EU is like $16. You'd be stupid to leave it there for the next person to grab. But that's irrelevant, even if it was a penny so what? The problem is you're insecure with your GF.
 
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