i pay?

[surface1030]

hey whats up guys. i used my dj skills and i got myself a date this saturday! wooooot wooooot! me and this chick have been hittin off pretty cool lately. we hang around with each other alot at school whenever we have a chance. i told her were going to go eat at this cool restuarant and maybe a movie. i had a question. do i pay for the checks and stuff? last time i went on a date i did cause i had this feeling like, i'm the man i have to pay for everything cause it shows i can and i'm responsible/independent. what if she insists on paying like "oh no let me pay for this". do i say no no its okay? or do i let her, lol. maybe i'm just talking out of my ass. fellow dj's, assist me please.

 

[Thraxeh]

if she does the

"no, no, i'll pay"

then say, "alright we'll pay half each"

 

[penkitten]

paying is ok.. going dutch is ok..
dont let her pay until you have dated a while... then its ok to let her pay...

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Easy solution, say to her "I'll pick up dinner if you'll pick up the movie." The whole "Dutch" thing is so impersonal.

 

[Interpol]

Just pay for her, hoes don't have money.