i opened for myself then my bro took over?

[coffin]

i was at a bar shootin pool with my bro i saw a girl go out and smoke so i went out and offered her a light. we started talkin and after we finished smokin we sat and talked some more. then it was time to take my shot i tell her ill be back in a sec. as im takin my shot my bro walks outside and started hittin on the girl i was just hittin on. and between me and him there is no competition he is the alpha male type and im not so much. then after he talks to her and stuff he comes back in and said it was my fault he did it....

so i didnt let that get to me 2 much i kept at it wasnt goin to just give up cuz she showed intrest in me but by the end of the night he beat me and ****ed her in the bathroom. this is me ventin right now but i think that it was messed up he did that to his brother who plays his wing man all the time

 

[Kevin Feng]

Okay, that's the just absolutely lousy wingmanship.

Basic rule of thumb, the person that opens gets choice of the target, that's just unanimously how it works and its only fair that way. Asian Playboy has been one of the best wings to me, but that being said, we have our agreements and boundaries when we run game.

http://theasianplayboy.blogspot.com/2006/02/top-10-qualities-for-good-wingman.html


Secondly, you shouldn't think your friend is more alpha than you. One of my best friends is way smaller than me, he's only 5"3 and skinny yet sometimes he outdoes me, it has nothing to do with size and everything to do with your personality, don't take people's bull****.

-Kevin

 

[Faded Image]

Well, it seems your brother knows you well enough to know that you weren't going to do anything but try and become friends with her. He just took advantage of your known weaknesses and sealed the deal for himself.

It wasn't cool for him to do this but you should use this occasion as a lesson learned to prevent it from happening in the future.

 

[coffin]

yea he has never been a wing man for me i didnt need 1 then i found out later my brother has done this to all his friends to show that he can 1 up us all. and its not about size im 6 foot 2 190 and my bro is about the same size i am cept he is 20 pounds more. he just knows i have very little experience with girls cuz when i was in school i was fat and goth... lol and then i was sheltered by my mother cuz she wouldnt let me go anywhere. but ive lost 40 pounds and started dressin the part i think my bro sees me as competition now and he loves o prove he is better then me

 

[Scars]

I used to feel the same way when I went sarging with one of my wingmen. I still got girls but he always got with the hott ones, while I had to settle with the cute or above average friend. For awhile I just rolled with other people or I surrounded myself with friends I felt superior too. It worked for awhile, but then we started hitting up parties again together and I just used it as a motivation to improve myself and my game. Now I like to think of my game as a little more "aggressive" than it was before, and now I'm the one pulling all the hotties. I'd say me and him are about equal in skill level, but at least we respect each other. If I call a girl I respect it and don't go for the girl, and he does the same with me. However, there's times you obviously know the girl is just feeling your buddy more and vice versa, and we sometimes happen to trade. Perhaps you should just not go out with your bro for awhile until you can improve your game a bit, or just find a better wingman. I would never roll with somebody I couldn't fully trust.

 

[DJDamage]

Your bro is a d1ck that's a fact, however it takes some skills to pull what he did so it looks like from this side of the fence as if you dropped the ball and he picked it up.

Next time don't just leave your target without closing the deal (get her digits, she might not be there or be alone when you come back). Also never cry on spilled milk, just because you spoke to a girl it does not mean that she's already spoken for and is off the market for the rest of your crew.

 

[Kal0051]

lol, wow your bro's a real ass. Sounds like he purposely did that just to spite you. I wouldn't consider him a wing, because you know how the saying goes "with friends like that who needs enemies". Just use this "incident" as an excuse to improve your game and show him up next time (isn't karma a *****).

 

[coffin]

dude he is a master at pickin up girls man every girl i know says " your bro is hot" and once they meet him its like i become invisible i cant compete with a pro when im jsut gettin started i aint even sure if i got the looks to pull it off... not trying to be down on myself but like i siad in high school i was invisible to girls now i see them lookin at me and smiling but then they look at him and there clothes are already on the ground. lol

 

[Kal0051]

well, your first problem is that you view yourself as worthless. Fixing that is your first priority. I bet once that's done more girls will notice you, even when your brother's there. Girls can sense that you have a low view of yourself (well actually anyone can).