nismo-4
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Normally, I notice when I talk to a girl, she may start flirting with me and all, complete with touching, but I get rejected the moment I make a move, and the flirting comes to a screeching halt. I nowadays don't speak to a lot of girls cuz things go as I expect (even though the result is bad), meaning that:
1. I'll get turned down
2. Freeze up and walk off
3. Kill the conversation myself if it gets too awkward
5. Somehow manage to end up getting physical only to have the girl toss me aside like a smelly gym sock a day later.
Sure I get kudos for trying, but I only seem to make it easier for the next person to win the girl over.
I know I'm not a superstar right now (and I don't wanna wait for my future fame to get women), but I try what I can to understand women...seems to fail. I wonder to myself if I'm even MEANT to get an attractive woman. often times I get TOLD to talk to an attractive girl, :nervous: but I end up saying something like "I bet ya 500 dollars she got a boyfriend! She wouldn't find me interesting! What could she see in a chucklehead like me?" or "To get rejected and ridiculed in front of everybody? Hell no! If I wanted to make a comedy, I'd call NBC Executives! Often times, I spare the embarrassment by having someone else make a move and I just pray that they lose so I have a better chance of winning. It ain't much, but...
It seems I can't get past being friends even though I kino and keep my hygeine up! Any suggestions?
1. I'll get turned down
2. Freeze up and walk off
3. Kill the conversation myself if it gets too awkward
5. Somehow manage to end up getting physical only to have the girl toss me aside like a smelly gym sock a day later.
Sure I get kudos for trying, but I only seem to make it easier for the next person to win the girl over.
I know I'm not a superstar right now (and I don't wanna wait for my future fame to get women), but I try what I can to understand women...seems to fail. I wonder to myself if I'm even MEANT to get an attractive woman. often times I get TOLD to talk to an attractive girl, :nervous: but I end up saying something like "I bet ya 500 dollars she got a boyfriend! She wouldn't find me interesting! What could she see in a chucklehead like me?" or "To get rejected and ridiculed in front of everybody? Hell no! If I wanted to make a comedy, I'd call NBC Executives! Often times, I spare the embarrassment by having someone else make a move and I just pray that they lose so I have a better chance of winning. It ain't much, but...
It seems I can't get past being friends even though I kino and keep my hygeine up! Any suggestions?