Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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I only like thin girls

00Kevin

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ok I think I have a major problem. I just can't seem to get over the fact that I only want thin girls. I have went on many dates recently and I just can't accept anything less then thin. It doesn't matter how nice of a girl she is. I just can't start anything serious with a girl that isn't thin. I don't know why this is. Even if she just looks like she could get fat I'm already running to the hills. I don't want anything serious with them.

At the moment I could have my pick of any of the women I'm dating. But I don't want any of them because they are not thin enough. Of course this makes them want me more which is also getting anoying. It makes me feel like a total ******* for not giving them a chance.

There is one girl that I know that would be totally amazing in a serious relationship, but I just won't give in to her. She buys me things and even cooks for me. WTF! This is making me feel like crap. She called me a few nights ago and I told her that I only like thin girls. This hurt her but dispite it she still calls.

I NEED a naturally thin girl. Any degree of fat is just a major turn off for me. If I can't pick the girl up with ease and toss her on my bed I don't want her.

Anyone else have this problem?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Beatflux

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What makes you think you should want non-thin girls? Do you believe you should like non-thin girls w/ great personalities?
 

WaterTiger

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Then only date thin girls! You like what you like! You can't MAKE yourself go for something you don't find attractive.

Just a note about this Miss Amazing who cooks and buys you things? You need to refuse her gifts, food and company. She's wasting her time with you and you are using her unfairly. You know full well you will never have any relationship with her so end it NOW.
 

A.J. Stanson

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"She called me a few nights ago and I told her that I only like thin girls. This hurt her but dispite it she still calls."

You shouldn't feel bad about not liking thin girls, but you SHOULD feel bad about rudely telling a girl that likes you that "you only like thin girls." Really man, that's cold. Funny, but cold.
 
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