"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I only imagined this scenario in the movies!

CJE666

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Hey there, new to the community and looking forward to learning lots from this website.

Heres a lttle about myself. Im a 21 year old virgin. I consider myself to be confident, funny, and too bad looking either, im also an aspiring rapper. Anyways not to babble on il get to the point.

My mom recently got engaged and we went to her fiances' sons(future stepbrother) house to meet the family. There I met my future stepsister. She was 40, a 9 or 10 in most peoples books, an actress and personal trainer.... and she was hitting on me hard! Her body often seemed to be positioned towards me. Always tried to talk to me when she got the chance, while stoking her neck and hair and prying for information. She really lit up when i told her i rapped:D The thing is, her husband and kid were there, definitely looked like their marriage was on the rocks by the way they acted. Does chick really want to **** me!? I sense both marriages will fall apart, should i lose my virginity in the most epic way possible if the chance arises?
 
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Zarky

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Please don't make a fool out of yourself. This woman has no sexual interest in you. Fail with women your own age. You're extremely young and inexperienced.
 

CJE666

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She also asked me if i had a girlfriend, not sure if that matters at all haha
 

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Don't s*** in ya own back yard. It will only make things bad and cause a divide in your new family unit.
 
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