"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I only imagined this scenario in the movies!

CJE666

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Hey there, new to the community and looking forward to learning lots from this website.

Heres a lttle about myself. Im a 21 year old virgin. I consider myself to be confident, funny, and too bad looking either, im also an aspiring rapper. Anyways not to babble on il get to the point.

My mom recently got engaged and we went to her fiances' sons(future stepbrother) house to meet the family. There I met my future stepsister. She was 40, a 9 or 10 in most peoples books, an actress and personal trainer.... and she was hitting on me hard! Her body often seemed to be positioned towards me. Always tried to talk to me when she got the chance, while stoking her neck and hair and prying for information. She really lit up when i told her i rapped:D The thing is, her husband and kid were there, definitely looked like their marriage was on the rocks by the way they acted. Does chick really want to **** me!? I sense both marriages will fall apart, should i lose my virginity in the most epic way possible if the chance arises?
 
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Zarky

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Please don't make a fool out of yourself. This woman has no sexual interest in you. Fail with women your own age. You're extremely young and inexperienced.
 

CJE666

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She also asked me if i had a girlfriend, not sure if that matters at all haha
 

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Don't s*** in ya own back yard. It will only make things bad and cause a divide in your new family unit.
 
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