“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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i often F* up set up date, pls advice here

TheGambino

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I often f* up when i try to set up a date with a text after metting a girl
here the whole story, thx already

So I met her last night.

She passed me, I whispered: hey beauty, she laughed and went to the toilet. When she came back I pulled her to me and started convo. Hey I know you from a couple of weeks ago, I talked to you, I remember your funny smile. She replied, liar never saw u before (true). I had to come up with something so I changed subject and convo’d bein nice but also teasing, kino’ing and making fun of her. So after like 3 mins I asked for her number. She said I don’t know it (sure..). so I said ok look it up, she hesitates but still plays with her phone and gives It to me. Her friend was ****blocking by telling her to come with her. In the end I turned my face and pointed my cheek she kisses and I turned my face and kissed her mouth, she left immediately. After like 15mins she comes back to my spot dancing with her friends not looking at me, but I felt like she came back for some attention again. I danced with a friend of mine, ignored her 15mins and then approached. She seemed amused, I teased her again then grabbed her hand and isolated. I saw her wink her friend! She kissed me and we made out.

After that we went back and her friend started to ****block again. I told her, bye tiger and she said hey come back. Ok all good u think, after that I talked to some other girls I knew, she saw that so I noticed that she was talking to her friends about me and they left that spot near us.
I run into her twice more and asked where the afterparty gon’ be three times, so I came over a bit needy in the end!

Broskis how shouldi I pick it up from here, I got her number and I wanna text her to do something tonight. Shuld I text her know or wait a couple of days. Im thinkin to send something like hey tiger, I wanna see u tonight for a drink , you free?
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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My default follow up game is pretty constant and reliable.

1.) Wait 2-4 days and send a text about something funny that happened the night you met. Could be a person you two were making fun of, maybe she spilled her drink, etc.

2.) 2-3 text exchange then say " Hey I got a recommendation to this new restaurant and wanted to go. What night are you free?" Then when she responds with a couple of days, you pick one and give a DEFINITE TIME.

3.) Dont text her again. She will most likely text you the day of the date to make sure its still on.

4.) Go and have fun
 

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Too much analysis. Men really don't realize how simple the game is.

When a woman sees value, she doesn't need to be "gamed" into f*cking you. Just like we men are easily sold on a woman's looks.. women are easily sold on value.

I advocate being direct and sexual immediately and having FUN with the girl:

-Joking
-Flirting
-Touching
-Teasing

Its silly to ask for a number long before you are going to part ways. If she is right in front of you.. then interact with her and possibly move her to a new location with less people. In most cases when I'm flirting with a girl and she likes it.. I ask her out on the spot. I tell her I want to take her out and show her a good time. THEN I ask for her number.

Once I have the number I'll text her whenever I feel like it. Could be the next day or a week later. I spin plates so I don't really give a sh!t about the timing. Once I text her I say something like:

"Hey cutie. What are you up to?"

If I get a positive reaction I say: "Free tonight?"

And go from there.

I put so little effort into gaming women its shocking. The truth is no woman is worth lots of effort this early. Either a woman wants to give you a chance OR she doesn't. Its not complex. :up:
 
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