I obviously have some type of self worth but I am still insecure?

[Shootin4Dreams]

With this girl i did not care if she dated other men but obviously she ended it and seems like she doesnt care about me and it bothers me for some reason. What gives
?

Weak inner frame?

 

[Lozboss]

Egos always get bruised.

Nobody is ever truly unaffected unless they really had no investment in the first place.

You haven't quite managed the abundance mindset yet but that takes years of success to cultivate.

 

[Reykhel]

It's your ego, fella.

The one who gets rejected will find that their interest level will fvcking skyrocket, especially if he has no other options.

Get some things into your head:
You determine your own self-worth. The key to self-worth is the word SELF. It's not fvcking called 'other-worth'. You don't wear it on your sleeve for others to rub up and down as they see fit. So yes your inner game does need work.

Here let's get all self-helpy shall we. Jack Canfield on self-esteem:
"no matter what you do or say to me I'm still a worthwhile person"

Every relationship that you enter into WILL END etheir through her rejection or your rejection or DEATH. Know this with every woman and enjoy the moment. Nothing more. This will end.

Nobody cares about you everybody is motivated by their own SELF-INTEREST. Know this and let go of that bull**** that it seems like she doesn't care about me. She doesn't. But nobody does. This is to set you free of your unreal expectations on people.

You come in on your own, you leave on your own: in other words YOU are the most important person in any relationship you choose to have with a woman.

OPTIONS MY FRIEND, OPTIONS if you knew you could walk out the door and get a HB8 tonight and a HB9 tomorrow.....would you give this skank a second thought?

This skank is dead to you now. Dead at the bottom of the oceon.

 

[Shootin4Dreams]

Nobody cares about you everybody is motivated by their own SELF-INTEREST. So why would i want to get married? Women only want you when your on top. Basically, she said and then tried to make excuses saying she realized she didnt need to date right now when i tried to reason with her. Its like also she said she had feelings for guy before she met me, even though he treated her like trash and was side chick for 4 years she still had sex with him. I treated her good, took her on dates, listened to her when she needed to talk to someone about her friends mom dying and she does this WTF?

 

[Shootin4Dreams]

I also know my side chick had something to do with this.Tuesday i told her to peace out. because, she was ignoring me then she blew up my phone apologies saying she was gonna write me back and then found my fb and was messaging me. Then the next day is when my girl just dumped me and then thursday i got call from some number sounded like her and said i got the wrong number. Why am i being lied to and manipulated by women? I decided to delete facebook also because my girl seemed more into me when she was curious. Then when i added her on there and said i liked her and opened up and let her tell me problems it just went downhill. Why did she say you gotta be able to talk about problems be open? When i do she ****s on me?

 

[Casillas]

Don't take it too personal bro. Why are u going to stress over 2 girls when there is ton of others girls outside waiting to be approach.

 

[Shootin4Dreams]

Well, because I want to succeed with women and I am tired of failing after 2 or 3 months with a girl. I want to approch and do it right from this point forward. So I am trying to find my problems and kill them.

 

[Reykhel]

Nobody cares about you everybody is motivated by their own SELF-INTEREST. So why would i want to get married? Women only want you when your on top. Basically, she said and then tried to make excuses saying she realized she didnt need to date right now when i tried to reason with her. Its like also she said she had feelings for guy before she met me, even though he treated her like trash and was side chick for 4 years she still had sex with him. I treated her good, took her on dates, listened to her when she needed to talk to someone about her friends mom dying and she does this WTF?

"So why would i want to get married?" Exactly you learn fast, I like that.

Read this, you'll find your answers:
http://illimitablemen.com/understanding-the-red-pill/red-pill-constitution/

"I treated her good, took her on dates, listened to her when she needed to talk to someone about her friends mom dying and she does this WTF?" so you were her emotional tampon and she then discarded you...like a used tampon. Learn and move on.

Find a copy of FJ Shark's How to be the jerk women love

Now you see the error of your ways, you won't want to repeat that again. If your still crying over this byatch go to the "Just Being dumped, No contact" thread.

Two words: interest level. If it's gone it's gone. Be ruthless....chasing a woman with no interest in you is.....well it's just daft really. In fact chasing a woman is just.....well it's just daft really.

Learn to get her to chase you. Don't be available all the time.