I now feel guilty about sleeping with a girl

[tjslove]

Here is my story. I met this girl who is an absolute 9 and has probably had millions of compliments from guys. I went out with her 5 times, used the ****y and funny routine, was not too quick to call her back. On the 5th date I slept with her.

The problem I have now is that I did not call her back for a week and a half, and se caught me going into my apartment with another girl. (SHE WAITED OUTSIDE MY APT FOR 5 HOURS TO SEE WHAT I WAS DOING)...............now take into consideration that she has used her short time on earth using men. I now feel a but guilty because I sort of like her but am apprehensive because something tells me that if I was all nice and gentlemanlike she would not give me the time of day.

What am I to do?

 

[C00L]

dont be so afc just go with what feels right.

this is life, not a perfectly written fairy tale. why havent you called her since you banged her? I mean she's a 9 so as long as she was cool then keep her around...

Just call her and tell her you've been mad busy and you want to chill with her then arrange a meeting.

btw the fact she saw you with another chick can only work for you.

 

[psychgrad]

First, I would call a girl the next day after sleeping with her because it makes it seem like you did not use her just for sex and even if you did at least you can always call her for a F***. I would try to call her and just make it seem like nothing happened.

 

[lebRambo]

she was STALKING you, and YOU feel guilty? holy sh*t man. unless you talked about being exclusive, she had NO ground for complaining about you seeing other girls, let alone camping outside your f*cking apartment. If she says sh*t, drop this ho.

 

[flexion_]

Stalking is probably a bad sign.

 

[( . )( . )]

Originally posted by tjslove
(SHE WAITED OUTSIDE MY APT FOR 5 HOURS TO SEE WHAT I WAS DOING)

You said yourself shes spent the better part of her life using and manipulating men, so your lack of AFCness is a whole different world to her. Powerful stuff indeed, enough to turn her into a bunny boiler.

I'm kind of with psychgrad though, except I dont call, but a quick text message a couple of days later is polite.

The only real problem I see here is you have to try and drop the society induced guilt your carrying, I know its easier said than done but it can be done (to a degree) . I personally was one of the worst at feeling guilt 3 years ago, but time and practice is slowly undoing 27 years of brainwashing.

Good job anyway.

 

[Tkman]

Originally posted by tjslove


What am I to do?

Make her wait another 5 hours outside

 

[VSIDEBOY]

Yes I know that this is my first post, and I should have made my points earlier but, you'll forgive me!

Listen guys, do not EVER feel guilty for anything that happens between you and a girl. Whatever happens, happens for a reason. And that reason HAS to be something that YOU have initiated!

Look at the animal kingdom, the whole point of you being on this planet is to procreate (lots of practice IS allowed!!). There are insects that only live for 1 day that manage to do this so why shouldn't we? Regardless how old you are, how you look, how much money you have, how much female experience you have, just go out there, enjoy yourself, talk to everyone and let things sort themselves out. Cavemen only said 'ugg' yet we have all come from that ancient caveman conversation to where we are now! Why should we analyse everything we say to women when our ancestors said 'ugg' and the cavewomen loved it?

Laters

Dan