Dude I'm in the same boat. I was about 2 seconds away from entering a girl for the first time without a condom and I chickened out because of STD's. I went a put the condom on but couldn't get it going after that. Don't know if I made the right decision.Venom said:
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
I never give girls a chance and im scared of STDS
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Hi, just to clarify, you can't get genital herpes from a handshake. Secondly there are two types of herpes, simplex 1 and simplex 2.
simplex one is cold sores on the mouth, simplex 2 is genital.
Genital Herpes can be transferred even with condom use and can effect anywhere in the "boxer shorts" area.
simplex one is cold sores on the mouth, simplex 2 is genital.
Genital Herpes can be transferred even with condom use and can effect anywhere in the "boxer shorts" area.
If this wasn't true, I probably wouldn't be a virgin.Venom said:
Through my High School life, I got through most of the endless talk of how "sex will kill you" our teachers bombarded us with by rationalising that if I used a condom then I'd be okay.
The announcement of the fact quoted above finally cornered me, and to this day it is to me as AFCism is to most guys my age; the primary barrier to sexual success.
I think many people are even misinterpreting what it means to be a don juan.. being a DJ doesnt mean just fvcking girls.. I think it means just being a ladies man in general and getting quality over quantity. Anyone can get quantity, but its quality that is the real challenge.
Thus, fvcking girls in general is not really the accomplishment, its fvcking quality girls (possibly good girls in the process) that makes it a good f*ck.
correct me if im wrong?
Thus, fvcking girls in general is not really the accomplishment, its fvcking quality girls (possibly good girls in the process) that makes it a good f*ck.
correct me if im wrong?
You're right. Not only that, but fvcking every girl you can will not necessarily make you look like DJ, but instead a creep. If you're just trying to do that then your value will decrease since you don't have standards and you're not that hard to get after all. Fvck hot girls and your social proof (value) will go through the roof.
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
ghostrider943
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I look for the perfect girl, so I like your approach. Seriously, some guys have to have standards. But you cant look for that perfect girl that doesnt have flaws, because chances are she may just be in your head.
I too am scared of getting STDs. Just dont do any penetration than. Nothing that can give you an STD. Even wearing a condom can still give you STDs because certain diseases can get around that.
I too am scared of getting STDs. Just dont do any penetration than. Nothing that can give you an STD. Even wearing a condom can still give you STDs because certain diseases can get around that.
ready123
Master Don Juan
you can get a genital infection from simplex 1 and you can get an oral infection from simplex 2. the name of the virus doesn't limit the infection area. you can go down on a girl and end up with cold sores on your mouthVenom said:
and it's improbable to get the virus from a handshake but biologically it's still possible. I was trying to use a ridiculous example to show there's a ton of things you can worry about if you take them out of context
all that perfect girl I have standards and you don't talk is just rationalizations. if you can't escalate, you lack a lot of the reference experience needed to flesh out those standards. you'd be surprised how much a woman's perception of you can change once you've had sex with her
penkitten
Master Don Juan
you are right. they used to classify 1 as mouth and 2 as genital until they learned more about it. now its classified more as 1 not as severe, 2 more severe, oral on mouth, genital below the waist.ready123 said:
i know a girl that has herpes in her eye and that is called octualar herpes (misspelled) and she gets it on her nose which has no actual name.
OneEyedJack
Don Juan
Lipactin is a good Cold Sore minimizer. It works for me.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.