"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

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I never call her but she always calls me...

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I just noticed that this girl always calls me when we talk. I never call her. I can't even remember the last time I called her. is this bad? I like her but I don't want her to think like sshes doing all the work by calling and I never call. Even when she doesn't call I have an urge to call her but I'm like nah, she'll call and if she doesn't then she'll call tomorrow. And that's what ends up happening. Is this good or bad and how should I pursue this?
 

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Get the urge for a booty call? Call her.

Got the urge to be more serious with this girl? Make sure she earns it and then maybe give her a phone call.

If not, don't worry about it.

A woman will stop calling you far faster for calling her too much, as opposed to not calling her at all.
 
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according to everything i've ever read on this website, you are doing the right thing.
 
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good. this seems like a good thing for you. assuming the conversation is playful and relatively interesting and that you do more than just talk on the phone.

assuming you want an LTR with this girl i'd say it's safe at this point for you to bring something to the table
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I was just wondering if she does for some reason stop calling me for a few days, should I get worried? I mean the best gift you can give a woman is the gift of missing you right? I just don't want to **** it up because she doesn't call and she thinks "see he never calls me" and moves on. i dunno, everytime I feel the urge to call her -- I don't because then it will feel like I lost. I only want to call her when I want to go out or whatever, if Im just chillin at home and im bored and I feel the urge to call her I end up fighting it and not calling. dunno, i guess its the right thing to do..
 
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my ex gf was the same. i just accepted that she liked calling all the time. even when we first met she called me first. she probably called almost everyday while we were together. school breaks and what not.
 
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