"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Stephen89

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I really need help on a situation.

I and 30 and my sister is 29 years old.

For 7 years when she was a teen to early 20s she did not once talk to me and spoke to me angrily.

When there are events she looks at me angrily and also talks back angrily.

There is quite a lot I can say.

She sometimes has a go at my father.

She earns a lot of money and been working professionally for the last 7 years and shes not giving no money to my father to pay the utility Bill's and my father is poor, way below average in earnings.

She lies every week where she is going out literally for the last 3 years. Saying shes staying at her friends house when she really is going to clubs or something else and staying at hotels.

Also when I ask her stuff she doesn't answer back properly. Or follow through what she says and is selfish.

There are also many other things.

Also I wanted to run a business she goes I always say this. Will she even give a chance?

She says I never help out and I always help out everyday.

I'm even earning money and she doesn't listen.

She doesn't want to listen.

Also I say I want to run a business and she shouts I show off.

Does she believe other women or people are good role models? Maybe her friends are selfish so she copies them and maybe she is unhappy but that is her problem.

I was honestly sometimes scared of her.

Why does she behave like this please?
 

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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

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Speculator E

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Does she believe other women or people are good role models? Maybe her friends are selfish so she copies them and maybe she is unhappy but that is her problem.
I was honestly sometimes scared of her.
Why does she behave like this please?
You just have a bad human being as a sister. I have one too and she is around your sister's age.
It took me a long time to accept it and I tried to help my sister be a better human being.
But ultimately, I had to learn that...you cannot save people from themselves.

It makes me sad, but you can't help people if they don't want to be help.
Sorry bro, I can relate and understand why you want to help your sister.
 

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jfl you sound intrusive like you have a sister kink


her life is her life. if she wants Chad's sausage every weekend then thats her choice
 
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