"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I needa get This girl!!

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Hmm... im new to this school... and i seen alot of hott girls... but on my 3rd day of school is saw the hottest girl eva.. on a scale from 0-10 shes 11 lol...yea so... i was chillen wit a friend of hers and i told her to tell the girl that she is so hott... and when the period was over i was leavin the class the girl was walkin in right on my face... so her friend said out loud that i said i think shes hott... so she just smiled and i left... then after a couple of days she was with her friend and passed by me.. she was like " He reminds me of ....." and smiled at me.... so like... next time i have a chance to talk to her after school i will... any suggestions on how to hit on her? or whateva step i should take? thx....
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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i dont think that was a good first move,telling her friend to tell her she was "hot"
 

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Originally posted by AFK Protector
I got news for you. You think she's a 11, but she thinks you're a 1.

Now go read the bible, grasshopper.
where do you get this from? you have no information to base this on. don't just condescend him for no reason.

go talk to her, build rapport, and if the conversation is going well get her number.
 

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Originally posted by Porky
where do you get this from? you have no information to base this on. don't just condescend him for no reason.

go talk to her, build rapport, and if the conversation is going well get her number.
Dude...he thinks she's a f-ing 11. I'm going to tell him to read the bible. If he feels he's unworthy or this girl, then he will work to improve himself. We all start off that way. We change for the girl that brought us here. Then after a while, we realize we should be changing for ourselves and make that transition. This guy is new and he really need to read the bible...I'm just pushing him.

If you want to change, you can't expect to hear pretty talk or there will be no reason to change!
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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w/e man... i asked for help to not for any a**hole to say wut he doesnt kno... how the *uck she thinks im a 1 if im one of the best lookin guys in skewl ? ... thx for u help even tho it was an useless post... and yea i freakin read the bible but im just tryin to get some opnions here of wut i should do to get a better result but if ur opnion is to criticize me and tell me to give up its helpless
 

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Originally posted by BrAzILiaNpLaYaE
w/e man... i asked for help to not for any a**hole to say wut he doesnt kno... how the *uck she thinks im a 1 if im one of the best lookin guys in skewl ? ... thx for u help even tho it was an useless post... and yea i freakin read the bible but im just tryin to get some opnions here of wut i should do to get a better result but if ur opnion is to criticize me and tell me to give up its helpless
dude, you think she's a friggin 11. if you even read the bible (DJ bible...not Bible bible), you'd know not to friggin worship looks. also, your title reeks of desperation "I needa get This girl!!!!"

notice the "!!!!" I'm trying to help you snap out of it. You can choose too accept it or just go revolve your life around girls again. later.
 

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Originally posted by BrAzILiaNpLaYaE
any suggestions on how to hit on her? or whateva step i should take?
Next time you see her, invite her somewhere, and tell her you'd like to know her better. Remember that although she's freakin' hot, you're still better than her.....right?
 

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Yea i was wrong So wrong.... I should know that if she doesnt want me shes the 1 losing not me so wut? move on! i dont need but im not gettin rejected... if i do.. is because i did somethin wrong that i need to change... yeah rejection just gives me somethin to work on and change... THX GUYS!
 

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thats why new guys should never bite the hand that feeds them


With time and work Brazilian you can do anything..Good luck:cool:
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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My first responce to the name of your post was, no you don't.....Thats the best advice I can give you.
 

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You don't need this girl. You want her.
 

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If you think you need to get her, you wont.

Relax and sniff some bloody flowers.

PS: Read the bible.
 

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Errrr.....If u have classes with her...just talk to her and give eye contact and sort of watch for body language

Then completely ignore her as to attract her( if u dont know...then read the bible)

If you don't get any responses ur not showing enough value to her and attract her, don't follow her

(this is in the bible by the way)
www.fastseduction.com/guide ...is another site
 

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" I needa get this girl"


No. You WANT this girl. You DONT NEED her. Keep that in mind.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Lol this thread is funny.

You guys crack me up.

I don't even believe in 10's and your calling this slut a 11? wow thats depresing.

Take her off her pedistal bro, your the f*cking 11, she's a 1 compared to you.
 

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Yea man i def. need to work on some of my acts thx for all yah replies... hmmm she gets hit on by alot of other guys... i kno im better than them but i dont wanna get stuck on her now.. i just wanna get some other girls in skewl than go for that challange...
 

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Hahaha... its awsome to look back and see that 5 years ago i was sucha ****in loser hahaha.... I guess i didnt know ****t but yeahh i got that girl and ended up going out with her for 4 years. Now im back here cause im single again and seem to have lost some of the things i learned on this forum. After getting with her I became a god to other girls. Which made me realize that people see that you are what you show them you are.
 

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dude try winning over her friends and she'll be attracted to you, and always act alpha(basically dnt giv a ****).
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"Nothings easy to the Unwilling"
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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