"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I need your technical help! (Cheating)

Bible_Belt

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You're better off trying your luck elsewhere. The dark web maybe. But then you face the large possibility of finding scammers and extortionists who may end up hacking you instead.
Or maybe he'll run into an online cop. Soliciting illegal activity over the Internet from someone that you don't know is a cop...well that's just good police work. Alabama just charged a retarded kid as a terrorist because an undercover online informant got him to agree that blowing stuff up is fun.

By the way, about the voice recorder, check your state laws first to make sure you are not in one of the twelve two-party consent states. Recording a girl is a felony wiretap if you are.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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There's lots of ways for a chick to know what you're doing, I seriously doubt she hacked your phone. I believe you're growing paranoid. Do you have any solid evidence of being hacked or do you just assume that to explain it because it's unlikely but still possible? If you got another phone there's no way she can do it, as for evidence I'm thinking of virus scans or something.
 

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Or maybe he'll run into an online cop. Soliciting illegal activity over the Internet from someone that you don't know is a cop...well that's just good police work. Alabama just charged a retarded kid as a terrorist because an undercover online informant got him to agree that blowing stuff up is fun.

By the way, about the voice recorder, check your state laws first to make sure you are not in one of the twelve two-party consent states. Recording a girl is a felony wiretap if you are.
With the voice recorder you don't get caught and you don't reveal your source, you simply do it for your own validation.
 

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#1 and #4 are the most important

1. If you have to ask how to hack you wouldn't understand the explanation. (Imagine asking someone how to perform a lobotomy or a quadruple bypass in the heart)

2. If someone says something like "here just run this program" it's either some script kiddie nonsense that has been patched by everything major for 10 years OR its a virus that'll infect your stuff.

3. You can just Google for tutorials and see what you get(use incognito/in private at the very least. If you wanna be decent use the program Tor or a proxy of some kind.)

4. No self respecting person would just take you back after dumping them especially for something they didn't do or that isn't their fault, finding out she really cheated would just hurt you more, and finding out she didn't actually cheat would just make you feel guilty and upset that you drove away a perfectly good girl and cant get her back.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Bro if she wasnt fukkin someone then, it doesnt matter because shes definitely fukkin someone now
 
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