"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I need your suggestions Playaz...

Trapper

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i have been with my girl more than 3 months.. and i have been fcvking her since than... surely she did enjoy to the extreme..to the point, now she is saying "lets stay friend hereafter".... her reason is that she will be gone after 2-3 months later and she is saying like this relationship ending is gonna hurt her so we should stop now...i told her " we are more than friends and if you want this now you are not gonna see me anymore, no talks, nothing... and i just walked over.. the tragedy is im somewhat in love with her bros... i donno whatever... need your suggestions!!!!

tnx..
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Never get emotional with a hor!! Wake up!!! The Matrix has you!!!!!
 

So pimp its scary

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Sounds like you laid down the law on that one... You played your cards, it's her turn to make a move.

Don't call her.
Don't think about her.
Don't talk about her.

Just forget about her... When she comes back you can decide what to do from there.

In the meantime GFTOW (Go Find/Fvck Ten Other Women)
 

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yeah you played this right. how is she gonna be gone in 2-3 months...like permanatly gone or just like gone for the summer?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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