I honestly do not not know why they care so much.
There is a cousin:
The cousin:
1) I lost my mom when I was young and he laughed when he's dad said to my dad "do you see your wife's ghost at night".
2) At a sports match somebody said I'm going to graduate with a good degree and he got angry and told me to "give his jacket to his dad".
3) At a practice session he said "I'm useless to others".
4) He started looking at me and laughing to others outside the practice session.
5) He said during the sports game sarcastically "I've finally started talking".
6) He said to others "I don't talk" loudly and rudely.
7) He cut me out and ignored me when I came to his house to visit his parents in October.
8) Did the same thing in November.
9) Last three Christmas parties in 2015, 2016 and 2017 he acknowledge others but ignored me quite ruthlessly.
10) At a party he acted big towards me and told a lie.
11) called me and his brother prats.
12) hasn't bothered to acknowledge me properly for so many years and neither has his parents who think I'm nothing
13) behind my back he says sarcastic things.
14) he was indirectly putting me down in front of people knowing that I am reserved he said "its' quite in the room", "at work it can be quite".
There is much, much more.
He neglect me at parties etc. He acts like I'm not there however he's trying to do it to undermine me..
He also talked about his work and how at his office.
In the last 7 years this cousin has ostracising me and talking to everyone else expect me. I could even sit next to him for hours.
-He subtle puts me down, he belittles and he is manipulative and sly, sly is the word and indirect put downs. He kinda thinks its funny and acts childish.
It's also the way he is ostracising and he is manipulative and sly.
He never wants to hear anything positive about me and will influence others.
He is happy that I am silenced. He and his mother has gossiped too negatively.
They do not want to hear anything about me trying to live my own life and trying to achieve. Although this cousin has achieved.
-When I see him he comes in the room, or anywhere else intimidating, loud and tries to set the tone trying to silence me. Most of what he does is deliberate and also pre planned.
-However I've proved him wrong, I guess he doesn't want me to feel I'm doing better than him or any superiority, neither does he want others to know I'm doing well. He knows I'm having success.
The other day too his mother wanted to indirectly put me down on a whatsapp conversation. They wish for my dignity to be ruined.
Its obvious they care too much and they seem fearful. They (he and his mom) demean, take the mick and do not wish to listen to anything positive, how the hell are they to shut, silence, behave like that to someone?
This guy must be very insecure and he must live to see me sad, miserable, feel anxious, be scared, they like it. I'd like to know why and what do you believe he is feeling internally?
I'm moving on and getting on with my life.
There is a cousin:
The cousin:
1) I lost my mom when I was young and he laughed when he's dad said to my dad "do you see your wife's ghost at night".
2) At a sports match somebody said I'm going to graduate with a good degree and he got angry and told me to "give his jacket to his dad".
3) At a practice session he said "I'm useless to others".
4) He started looking at me and laughing to others outside the practice session.
5) He said during the sports game sarcastically "I've finally started talking".
6) He said to others "I don't talk" loudly and rudely.
7) He cut me out and ignored me when I came to his house to visit his parents in October.
8) Did the same thing in November.
9) Last three Christmas parties in 2015, 2016 and 2017 he acknowledge others but ignored me quite ruthlessly.
10) At a party he acted big towards me and told a lie.
11) called me and his brother prats.
12) hasn't bothered to acknowledge me properly for so many years and neither has his parents who think I'm nothing
13) behind my back he says sarcastic things.
14) he was indirectly putting me down in front of people knowing that I am reserved he said "its' quite in the room", "at work it can be quite".
There is much, much more.
He neglect me at parties etc. He acts like I'm not there however he's trying to do it to undermine me..
He also talked about his work and how at his office.
In the last 7 years this cousin has ostracising me and talking to everyone else expect me. I could even sit next to him for hours.
-He subtle puts me down, he belittles and he is manipulative and sly, sly is the word and indirect put downs. He kinda thinks its funny and acts childish.
It's also the way he is ostracising and he is manipulative and sly.
He never wants to hear anything positive about me and will influence others.
He is happy that I am silenced. He and his mother has gossiped too negatively.
They do not want to hear anything about me trying to live my own life and trying to achieve. Although this cousin has achieved.
-When I see him he comes in the room, or anywhere else intimidating, loud and tries to set the tone trying to silence me. Most of what he does is deliberate and also pre planned.
-However I've proved him wrong, I guess he doesn't want me to feel I'm doing better than him or any superiority, neither does he want others to know I'm doing well. He knows I'm having success.
The other day too his mother wanted to indirectly put me down on a whatsapp conversation. They wish for my dignity to be ruined.
Its obvious they care too much and they seem fearful. They (he and his mom) demean, take the mick and do not wish to listen to anything positive, how the hell are they to shut, silence, behave like that to someone?
This guy must be very insecure and he must live to see me sad, miserable, feel anxious, be scared, they like it. I'd like to know why and what do you believe he is feeling internally?
I'm moving on and getting on with my life.
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