"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I need your help!

BigKyle

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Ok guys I come to you begging someone to help me out... I have some to personal enlightenment, Today I came to terms that I need to start working out and go on a strict diet, I am not hugely over weight or anything like that, but I have a bit of a gut, I need to get in shape and I need to do it now. What I am asking one for the more experienced members is to help me lay out a work out routine that will help me cut up and help me with a diet plan that will help me burn the fat, I know with the combination of eating right and doing the right stuff at the gym I can achieve my goal. But like I said I know nothing about this I am not pretending to either, I need your help for instance helping me with what I should eat and when, I can follow rules well, so if some one would be willing to take the time to maybe give me a strict food plan to follow (for instance what to eat how much to eat when to eat it) and a gym regiment that would be great. I appreciate any help you can all be in this. I need help making this change, and I am hoping you guys can help me with it!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Gangster Of Love

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Here is my professional opinion on the subject. As a long time certified fitness pro, I suggest you make a comitment to yourself to implementing the tips below.

Ok, couple of things you MUST DO:

1. Start keeping a food log
2. Cut all soda and juices from your meals.
3. Don't eat until you are full, or until you finish the entree.
4. Cut the size of your main meals.
5. Snack. You must eat something every 3 hours or so.
6. Do not skip breakfast.
7. One gallon of water/day.
8. Cardio: jog/bike/etc. 4 times a week for 25-30 minutes.
9. Weight train your entire body 3 times a per week, alternate days.
10. Focus on major muscle groups when weight training, don't worry too much about specific muscles at first.
11. Get measures, weighed, etc. Then compare your results in 4 weeks.
12. There are no BAD foods, well maybe just pork chops, sausage and any of that fatty stuff.
13. Limit your alcohol, better yet, eliminate it, it is mostly stored as fat in your system, and very quick.
14. Don't get into any of those "Low Carb" programs, anything that you're not willing to follow the rest of your life will just be temporary.
15. Take a multi vitamin/mineral supplement.
16. Don't do "Protein Drinks", instead look for a good "meal replacement" drink that is balanced. ex. Myoplex, MeTRX.
17. Don't get into the "avoiding/giving up" trap. Just reduce the size of your portions and be conciously aware of what goes in your system.

You will benefit and enjoy the benefits of your new energy levels and confidence. Stick to it. Put your character to the test and follow through.
 
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