I need your help.

[NSX-R]

I'm in a dilemma. I'm currently in a time where every move defines my whole feature. I have 2 options and I have to follow only one .

I live with my parents, we own some business , I'm a tennis pro and I live in a small city in Germany.

My first option is , keep on living with my parents, do only whatever they want, stop having a social life ( means to not be able to get and fck any chicks) and giving 24 /7 report of what I do but this way I will have everything I need ( food and stuff) , financial support for my tennis career ( a big chance to become someone great) and not having any financial problems for the rest of my life .

2nd option, leave from the house, take my life into my hands , do whatever I want, fck any chick I want but stop my tennis career, go to a new place again( meaning I have to start from zero again), having a feature that's financially unknown with help from nobody.

You will ask me , why am I asking you guys here and that there is nothing for me to trust and my answer is that this place was the only place that made me change into a better person than i was , improve in many things that nobody was willing to help so let's say it's the only place that I'm hoping to find for a proper advice.

 

[dustmuffin]

How far can you go in your the
Tennis career? World ranking? Does it have to be all or none? Can you move out and still work at family business? Are your parents that controlling?

 

[NSX-R]

How far can you go in your the
Tennis career? World ranking? Does it have to be all or none? Can you move out and still work at family business? Are your parents that controlling?

I have the potential to go at least at the top 100 in the world ( currently 800 in the world). Small leg injury couple of years ago kept me to be already in this ranking.
If I move out I can work to my family business but there won't be much of a difference so I don't want to.
Yes , they are not too extreme but definitely yes. I feel really lucky to have fcked all these chicks without them not knowing it ( I'm sure my father knows it)

 

[dustmuffin]

I have the potential to go at least at the top 100 in the world ( currently 800 in the world). Small leg injury couple of years ago kept me to be already in this ranking.
If I move out I can work to my family business but there won't be much of a difference so I don't want to.
Yes , they are not too extreme but definitely yes. I feel really lucky to have fcked all these chicks without them not knowing it ( I'm sure my father knows it)

Ok you seem young....I think I would want to see how far I could go in the tennis world. Give yourself a time limit to make it. Say 3 years. Screw on the side like you have been doing. How old are you? If things dont work out for tennis you can move iut and know you gave it your best shot.why do you care if they know you have sex? What will they do? Yell at you? Big deal.

 

[exhausted]

I'm in a dilemma. I'm currently in a time where every move defines my whole feature. I have 2 options and I have to follow only one .

I live with my parents, we own some business , I'm a tennis pro and I live in a small city in Germany.

My first option is , keep on living with my parents, do only whatever they want, stop having a social life ( means to not be able to get and fck any chicks) and giving 24 /7 report of what I do but this way I will have everything I need ( food and stuff) , financial support for my tennis career ( a big chance to become someone great) and not having any financial problems for the rest of my life .

2nd option, leave from the house, take my life into my hands , do whatever I want, fck any chick I want but stop my tennis career, go to a new place again( meaning I have to start from zero again), having a feature that's financially unknown with help from nobody.

You will ask me , why am I asking you guys here and that there is nothing for me to trust and my answer is that this place was the only place that made me change into a better person than i was , improve in many things that nobody was willing to help so let's say it's the only place that I'm hoping to find for a proper advice.

Put your everything into tennis and your Pro career. You cant go back and be a tennis pro at 33 but you can bang hoards of chicks until you are 60.
Dont live with the regret of giving it up so young. I gave up my baseball career to raise my son at 22(I have raised him alone). I love him of course but always wonder what would have happened if I had him late in life. Just yesterday I was driving my 20 year old nephew and he said to me "we could be driving in a Porshe right now instead of this Honda"...haha . damn kids. Good luck

 

[ubercat]

A man's purpose always comes first. Making it is tough but you can travel the world with Tennis. And if you can make the top 100 there will be plenty of *****. So totally agree with the guys follow the dream. I really liked Agassi s book open. He talks about some tough times on the road when he was starting out so read that if you need any inspiration. And if you want to know how much support and loyalty you will get from skirt read the section on Brooke Shields.

 

[NSX-R]

Thank you guys. I appeciate it very much.

 

[ubercat]

PPRF makes a good point. Money does matter. Now you are young so you can invest in yourself and taking risks is perfectly acceptable. Because if it doesn't happen you ve still got time to recover.

Since you have had an injury already I would look into some sort of income protection insurance which pays out if you're injured. It might be expensive but it's worth looking into so at least you know your options.

Physically you won't be able to train all the time and you will have lots of time when you're stuck on planes. So if you can find the time I would also suggest doing some form of qualification. Over to you what field that is in but if you are at all social I'd suggest marketing it's a great area to be in for a DJ.

The University of Illinois has an online MBA that you can do through coursera. Online is the obvious channel for you to choose as you can do it anytime anywhere while hopefully you're traveling world. And it is very cheap compared to a traditional university course.

Since you are in Europe so you probably know many languages anyway. But why not use your travel as a SpringBoard to learn some languages. Spanish has good cross over for u and Chinese is hard but fun. And language exchange Meetup groups are in every city in the world and are a great place to pick up if you are young.

Of course you will have to be very motivated but worst case scenario you try this for a couple of years and if it doesn't pan out you re a well travelled Savvy young guy who understands marketing and is multilingual. And you can always be a Club Pro for a bit while you r finishing your qualifications and getting back on your feet financially.

In terms of keeping motivated there will be other young pros on the tour who are studying as well so find them to hang out with.