I need your help motivating my girl to work out!!!!

[Iguana]

Hey everyone.

I'm dating this girl for two months or so and since that time, we've been going to the gym together. She has a normal body but needs LOTS of tonification since she has been a lazy bi@tch for years.

However, when I look at her at the gym it makes me wanna cry. She seems to have zero motivation or interested, sometimes she doesn't even wanna go.

I don't know how to boost her up, and I'm afraid that if I don't act soon, the time will come when she'll say "you know, gym's not of any use" and that'll be the day when I break her up LOL...

My friend came up with the idea of making her jealous by telling me "wow! look at that woman's hip/legs/body/whatever, awesome!"... any other ideas?

thx.

 

[Julian]

Dude you cant force her to do anything she doesnt want to. If she was telling you to go to a poetry class with her 3 times a week would you go? Probably but you wouldnt show motivation for it.

Its her body man, if shes not out of shape then who cares. But trying to make her jealous may have some effect.

"Wow that girl has some very defined triceps" lol

 

[Iguana]

I'm not trying to FORCE her, I need a way to MOTIVATE her. She sits all day in front of a computer and watching TV!!

Plus, doing exercises is GREAT for your health.

 

[Ice Cold]

What gender are you?

The chicks are supposed to be wanting to change us, not the other way around!

If you don't like how she looks - don't change her. Just dump her and get another one with a body you like from the beginning.

 

[PuertoRican_Lover]

She will never be thinner than what she is now so take a long stare because that is the best it is ever going to look!!!!

PR_L's first rule of women - "They only get bigger!!!!!" Most women are lazy and hate to put forth effort and exercise - RUN!!!

You are not going to marry her anyway - why worry???

 

[Aresx]

women need more of a social interaction sometimes...

guys can treat working out like a military science, almost, and do it rain or shine, 'man up' when he's feeling off, and go alone...

sometimes women can do that too, but more often than not, they need to feel social while doing it

play a sport with her - take a muay thai class with her, and she'll get toned, or sedn her for a kickboxing class or something along those lines

she'll more likely comply with those as it's something 'fun' to do with you, not something that she 'has' to do to stay attractive.

 

[Crank_It_Up]

Originally posted by PuertoRican_Lover
...PR_L's first rule of women - "They only get bigger!!!!!"...

lol, sad but true

 

[Crank_It_Up]

Originally posted by Iguana
Hey everyone.

I'm dating this girl for two months or so and since that time, we've been going to the gym together. She has a normal body but needs LOTS of tonification since she has been a lazy bi@tch for years.

However, when I look at her at the gym it makes me wanna cry. She seems to have zero motivation or interested, sometimes she doesn't even wanna go.

I don't know how to boost her up, and I'm afraid that if I don't act soon, the time will come when she'll say "you know, gym's not of any use" and that'll be the day when I break her up LOL...

My friend came up with the idea of making her jealous by telling me "wow! look at that woman's hip/legs/body/whatever, awesome!"... any other ideas?

thx.

ok, I can see it now... 6 months from now you'll be posting this:

My girl's bod improved a lot and now she dumped me for a better looking guy she met at the gym

 

[Drex]

PRL said it best.

One of the MAIN things on my list for a keeper would most definetly be a girl that stays in shape. I swear to god if I marry a woman and she lets herself go she is going to be served with divorce papers so fast she wont see it coming.

 

[Crank_It_Up]

Originally posted by Drex
PRL said it best.

One of the MAIN things on my list for a keeper would most definetly be a girl that stays in shape. I swear to god if I marry a woman and she lets herself go she is going to be served with divorce papers so fast she wont see it coming.

daddy, what happened to mommy?

I divorced her cause she wouldn't stay in shape.

Gee, thanks a lot dad.

 

[Nightspark]

make her chase your car when you're driving down the higway or something...

better yet steal something of hers and make her chase your a$s for it (like her mobile fone - DO IT in a playful manner but).... if she doesnt want it, then well you keep it ... good for you =) just make sure you take something useful. Keep doing that for a few weeks and bob's ya uncle dude! She'll be tonned! LOL

 

[Hollowpoint]

I totally feel the same way. If I'm working my a$$ off in the gym doing my best to be a sexy beast, she better be trying to not get a freaking belly.



I'd say show her some models but you know that'd just make her starve themselves. Stupid society and stupid women!! AHHHH!!!

 

[00Kevin]

yeah.. don't waste your time with a lazy girl.

I would just tell her flat out that if she doesn't get off her ass and lose the weight you will dump her. at least you would be honest about it.

The last time I was confronted with this problem I told the girl that I'm only capable of dating thin girls. I was just being honest with her.

Anyway.. you can't motivate a woman who is lazy. Find yourself a girl who is naturally slim and you will be happy.

 

[MindOverMatter]

Dangle a burger on a fishing pole in front of her out of arms reach while she's on the treadmill.

 

[Crank_It_Up]

Originally posted by 00Kevin
...Find yourself a girl who is naturally slim and you will be happy.

naturally slim with a nice rack and @ss is even better, no need to hit the gym.

 

[Aresx]

grab her fat roll and say, hey "no kids, no excuse" lol

or give her lots of piggy back rides, and then start to complain she's geting heavier

or check out a slim girl/tell her you ran into an old friend who looks hot now that she worked out

during sex, just lay on your back and let her do all the work.. she'll get a workout that way

or, just look at her body and stare at her face, and when she finally asks "what?"
just say "nothing..." this is a female tacic - it will make her question everything

 

[Fatality]

Originally posted by Iguana
Hey everyone.

I'm dating this girl for two months or so and since that time, we've been going to the gym together. She has a normal body but needs LOTS of tonification since she has been a lazy bi@tch for years.

However, when I look at her at the gym it makes me wanna cry. She seems to have zero motivation or interested, sometimes she doesn't even wanna go.

I don't know how to boost her up, and I'm afraid that if I don't act soon, the time will come when she'll say "you know, gym's not of any use" and that'll be the day when I break her up LOL...

My friend came up with the idea of making her jealous by telling me "wow! look at that woman's hip/legs/body/whatever, awesome!"... any other ideas?

thx.

If you don't like fat chicks why are you dating one? Plus everybody who said she will only get bigger is absolutely right. If a girl lets herself go at an early age when she isn't married she will be a blimp by the time she is 30.

 

[Cremasta]

Forget the gym, some people can't stand them or it just bores them senseless.

Buy her a dog, something decent that needs a lot of running like a border collie or a kelpie. Or you can both go out and get a couple of mountain bikes and go riding.

 

[PeeGee]

Look up fat woman porn in the net. Now take a picture of your girl. Make two posters. One of her with the heading: before. The other of the fat naked woman with the header: after.

Put it somewhere where she will see it. If she baulks, next!