"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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loco2chon

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Okay. Here is the deal. I was with a girl after a crazy get together January 2010. I now know that this girl has had feelings for me since middle school. She's definitely a MILF. At the time she had a boyfriend by the way(2010). Well... I had the chance to talk to this girl at a recent kick back ( I was practically the only single dude though ). That night I was with her for a second time. I got her number and gave her mine. Three days later she texted "hey"... I grabbed my phone called her and we began talking. This went on for three weeks and every weekend I was with her. On the third week she invited me over to her house to play volleyball with her family and there was her brother-in-law. She kept smiling at him and staring at him... She lives in the same house as this guy and his wife, her sister... That same weekend her sister, the dudes' wife left on a visit to Mex for about a week.

My question is, Do you think that him and her have a hidden affair or have had sex? In my opinion, yes. What do you guys think?

She was never my girlfriend so I told her I didn't like the way she acts around certain people and ended whatever we had.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Kailex

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Is this a trick question?

Because honestly, if she's not your girlfriend, who cares?

And btw, if you can't decipher what the hell is going on after all that you wrote... I'm kinda worried about you.
 

loco2chon

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Kailex said:
Is this a trick question?

Because honestly, if she's not your girlfriend, who cares?

And btw, if you can't decipher what the hell is going on after all that you wrote... I'm kinda worried about you.
From my experience from women like this my answer is yes. She has had something going with this guy. I just wanted to see if other people other than myself thought the same from previous experiences they've had.

Oh and I listened to that song... Its hella true!
 

loco2chon

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I now met this girl who is very pretty and a bit chubby. I'd give her a 6. :p She's pretty cool. I'm thinking of asking her to go out and dance on a weekend. I'm not a Don Juan, I'm more like an AFC. Should I go ahead and take this girl out? I mean, I have to start somewhere, right? :/
 
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