I need you guys opinion on this please

[RealmLord]

I asked this girl out to meet me at my workshop around Christmas last year and she agreed but she never showed up and i even caught her trying so hard to avoid me when she passed by.

I thought she is not interested and decided to move on but she came to my workshop this February for a service. I'm still new to all these DJ stuff and i decided not to chase but i just couldn't stop from doubting myself and think maybe i should put in more effort if she come around next time, but something tell me it is a trap and i should just move on.

This girl always act like a shy and nervous girl around me so i thought it was all signs of interest but then maybe everything is just in my head.

 

[Pierce Manhammer]

Be courteous and be polite and ask her out for coffee or lunch.

If she declines move along. You’re borderline over invested already. Stop.

 

[Black Widow Void]

I see that you're newer here. Welcome aboard.

If she's a customer, I'd keep it professional.

She may appear shy and nervous, but I wouldn't give her a hall-pass on poor behavior. Perhaps I'm too ridged, but if a girl doesn't thank me for taking her out, I won't ask her our again (no matter how good she looks).

I say the above because we only get one chance to make a good first impression. If that was her best first impression, then it's only going to get worse when she becomes more comfortable.

Best advice I can offer you is to focus on quality women over female quantity.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

This has nothing to do with wingmen. Moved to Anything Else.

@RealmLord please ensure your threads are posted in the appropriate forum in the future.

In regards to your question, start dating other women. When you only have a single option, that option looks far more important than it would otherwise.

Women who are interested make it easy for you. Women who aren't play games or make it known they aren't. She likely enjoys the free attention you are giving her but has no interest.