"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I need way to target weight loss in a certian area's.

Manualmaxima

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I work at a gym in the u.s. and i have been going 4 - 5 times a week to lose weight. I am about 5'7 and 170ibs. I am trying to loose weight in my stomach area. I have been going for about 2 month and all i can notice difffernt is in the place where i do nto want to lose fat like a ass. What can i do to target my stomach region? I have been lifting before my cardio so maybe i build more muscle and then in turn burn more fat, but it does not seem to be working in my stomach region.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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TheRelic

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Genetics play the major role in fat distribution. That aside, men tend to store their fat on their gut and shoulders. So you cannot target fat loss - it is impossible, without going down the surgical path. Your best bet is to keep up the cardio, the results will come.
 

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Im the same size as you are 5 ft 7 inches 170 pounds but Im lean
no gut, but I have broad shoulders and chest.

I run 5 to 6 miles a day and do 300 push ups and 300 sit ups and I cant seem to get any lighter? I geuss im naturally stocky?
 

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1.) You can't lose fat in just one area of the body. That is called spot reduction, and it does not work. Doing 300 crunches a day will not give you a 6-pack when you have a keg shaped stomach, it will just create abs underneath all that disgusting fat. You have to lose fat everywhere.

2.) keep your daily calorie intake at 1800-2200. If you don't know the calorie content of your foods or the ballpark of it, then you'll be fat forever. educate yourself.

3.) do weights 3x a week, cardio 4x a week (all on seperate days. Lifting weights will increase muscle mass, which in turn will increase your metabolism and make you burn off more fat at rest. supplement protein after both cardio and weights.

4.) cardio sessions should not be longer then 15 minutes.

5.) they should be done with high intensity. what that means is, when you do cardio, it should go like this:
jog for 30 secs
sprint for 30 secs
jog for 30 secs
sprint for 30 secs...


for the 15 minutes. Don't do long cardio sessions, because you will lose muscle mass. Also there has been a study (can't find the link) that proved short duration high-intensity cardio is much more efficient at burning fat in your body then long duration steady cardio.

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6.) only drink water, and drink LOTS of it.
 
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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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-HPNOTIQ-

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Read the fitness 'sticky' in the main section of the Health and Fitness forum.

http://www.fatlosstips.com/

This link in exceptional and gives a basic breakdown of how to lose weight.

Best Quote " Abs are made in the kitchen, not the gym!"

Words to live by.
 

Eulogy

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Spot reduction IS completely possible with things such as localised absorbtion of Yohimbine and other compounds.

Check out Yohimbun.
 
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