"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I need way to target weight loss in a certian area's.

Manualmaxima

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I work at a gym in the u.s. and i have been going 4 - 5 times a week to lose weight. I am about 5'7 and 170ibs. I am trying to loose weight in my stomach area. I have been going for about 2 month and all i can notice difffernt is in the place where i do nto want to lose fat like a ass. What can i do to target my stomach region? I have been lifting before my cardio so maybe i build more muscle and then in turn burn more fat, but it does not seem to be working in my stomach region.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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TheRelic

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Genetics play the major role in fat distribution. That aside, men tend to store their fat on their gut and shoulders. So you cannot target fat loss - it is impossible, without going down the surgical path. Your best bet is to keep up the cardio, the results will come.
 

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Im the same size as you are 5 ft 7 inches 170 pounds but Im lean
no gut, but I have broad shoulders and chest.

I run 5 to 6 miles a day and do 300 push ups and 300 sit ups and I cant seem to get any lighter? I geuss im naturally stocky?
 

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1.) You can't lose fat in just one area of the body. That is called spot reduction, and it does not work. Doing 300 crunches a day will not give you a 6-pack when you have a keg shaped stomach, it will just create abs underneath all that disgusting fat. You have to lose fat everywhere.

2.) keep your daily calorie intake at 1800-2200. If you don't know the calorie content of your foods or the ballpark of it, then you'll be fat forever. educate yourself.

3.) do weights 3x a week, cardio 4x a week (all on seperate days. Lifting weights will increase muscle mass, which in turn will increase your metabolism and make you burn off more fat at rest. supplement protein after both cardio and weights.

4.) cardio sessions should not be longer then 15 minutes.

5.) they should be done with high intensity. what that means is, when you do cardio, it should go like this:
jog for 30 secs
sprint for 30 secs
jog for 30 secs
sprint for 30 secs...


for the 15 minutes. Don't do long cardio sessions, because you will lose muscle mass. Also there has been a study (can't find the link) that proved short duration high-intensity cardio is much more efficient at burning fat in your body then long duration steady cardio.

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6.) only drink water, and drink LOTS of it.
 
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Read the fitness 'sticky' in the main section of the Health and Fitness forum.

http://www.fatlosstips.com/

This link in exceptional and gives a basic breakdown of how to lose weight.

Best Quote " Abs are made in the kitchen, not the gym!"

Words to live by.
 

Eulogy

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Spot reduction IS completely possible with things such as localised absorbtion of Yohimbine and other compounds.

Check out Yohimbun.
 
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