I need understanding. Any advice and perspective welcome.

[MisterMike]

Wednesday, I went on a blind date. It went really well, the conversation flowed, she was attracted to me and so on. We kissed a few times at the end of the date and she said that was all she did on the first date, which I respected and approved of. When she got home she texted that she had a great time. We agreed to go out again. Now she's not responding to any of my texts, I know she's getting them because the woman who set us up tells me, and now all of a sudden the girl I went out with is ghosting me. What's the deal here?

 

[dude99]

Wednesday, I went on a blind date. It went really well, the conversation flowed, she was attracted to me and so on. We kissed a few times at the end of the date and she said that was all she did on the first date, which I respected and approved of. When she got home she texted that she had a great time. We agreed to go out again. Now she's not responding to any of my texts, I know she's getting them because the woman who set us up tells me, and now all of a sudden she's ghosting me. What's the deal here?

Kissing is all she does on a first date with a guy she has mild or low interest in.

Not responding to your texts means she has very low interest

Your friend now ghosting you means your blind date lied to you when she said she had a good time. Sounds like your friend isn't a very good friend aftetall

Next. Don't waste any more time trying to figure this one out

 

[MisterMike]

Why would she allude to a second date then? She was planning on going out with me again before she dropped off the face of the earth.

 

[Bingo-Player]

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/thread...itiates-a-text-or-a-call.241451/#post-2442816

same question here

time scales mean nothing in these scenarios

could be 1 week , 1 month , 1 year

 

[The Duke]

Girls say all sorts of things. Actions always speak louder than words. Be very careful listening to what they say.

The reason a girl would do something like this is to keep you from getting angry if she directly said she didn't want to see you again. It keeps her out of a confrontation.

It also keeps you on the sidelines incase she gets bored/lonely later on. Women are famous for using men for attention.

Just blow this one off. Don't boost her ego. They need to do what you want or they are out. If they aren't depositing into your mental bank account, don't deposit into theirs. Simple as that.

 

[dude99]

Why would she allude to a second date then? She was planning on going out with me again before she dropped off the face of the earth.

Chicks lie.

 

[MisterMike]

Thanks for the input. It's a very frustrating experience.