"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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"I need to make time for my other girlfriends"

LouBrication

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something i came up with when i was with this girl i'm talking to...

me:"sorry, I have to cut back on my time with you... I need to make time for my other girlfriends."
her: "what other girlfriends?"
me: "yeah, i have six girlfiends already... you're my number seven... but i have a date with number one and two later"

she's not my girlfriend, but it got her to start qualifying herself as if she was actually my girlfriend, and that she should be my number one. i was only joking, but she couldnt tell if i was joking or not because she doesn't know how many girls i'm actually seeing. i guess this works because women are competitive creatures.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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ryannath

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I don't really see a question here, so I guess it's a tip. That's good ****y and funny. She was qualifying, so that's a good thing.
 

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MightyMate said:
Yeah it works. I do that alot. But mainly just for ****buddies, not for girls that id actually take as gfs.
yeah, i guess it depends on the girl... but even if she's gf material or not, this is still fun to say.
 
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i dont understand what the question is bro
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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^ umm... well, that's because it's NOT a question... if it were a question, it wouldnt be in the 'tips' section... this is a C&F type of line telling the girl that you cant spend too much time with her because you need to be with your other girls... hey, this is like a jealousy plotline or something right?
 

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You dont have to tell her that your dating other girls, she should have a feeling that she's not the only one your dating, its called sly fear tactics, works better if you ask me.

I find it cheap trying to play the same games that girls play on us, instead of telling her your seeing other girls or whatever, arrive at the date with obvious signs you were with another girl during the passed few days, bite marks are excellent at this, makes her work to get you.
 
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