The whole reason I came looking for SS was because I was dumped by my ex however many months ago now.
Since then I've had a ONS, become an ****y ****e (in a good way!) and I am taking serious steps to improve my image, confidence etc all based on the bible and teachings on here.
I've moved on from this girl, it took time and unfortunately she is still apart of my life occasionally through mutual friends. When I see her I'm civil, keep chit chat to a minimum and just hang with the lads.
She contacted me this evening after she was at a mutual gathering saying she hoped I got home okay and would like to meet up soon for a catchup as it'd be good to talk.
Now, I'd like to think she's taking these steps now because she sees me cracking on with shiit and im in a really good place right now though I really think she just wants to see what's happening in my life right now as I don't tell her ****.
I don't entertain any fantasy of getting back with her whatsoever, I want to bang a sh!tload of birds and be a DJ believe me but part of me hopes she goes 'Dan I messed up' just so I can say, sorry love I've moved on. Vindicative maybe, but **** it.
Now I know I need to blow this girl off, say sorry just busy with work, life etc and be done with it but the AFC in me that was with this girl thinks that's too harsh and additionally it would likely fracture my friendship with mutual friends.
So let me hear it from you guys, tell me straight.
Since then I've had a ONS, become an ****y ****e (in a good way!) and I am taking serious steps to improve my image, confidence etc all based on the bible and teachings on here.
I've moved on from this girl, it took time and unfortunately she is still apart of my life occasionally through mutual friends. When I see her I'm civil, keep chit chat to a minimum and just hang with the lads.
She contacted me this evening after she was at a mutual gathering saying she hoped I got home okay and would like to meet up soon for a catchup as it'd be good to talk.
Now, I'd like to think she's taking these steps now because she sees me cracking on with shiit and im in a really good place right now though I really think she just wants to see what's happening in my life right now as I don't tell her ****.
I don't entertain any fantasy of getting back with her whatsoever, I want to bang a sh!tload of birds and be a DJ believe me but part of me hopes she goes 'Dan I messed up' just so I can say, sorry love I've moved on. Vindicative maybe, but **** it.
Now I know I need to blow this girl off, say sorry just busy with work, life etc and be done with it but the AFC in me that was with this girl thinks that's too harsh and additionally it would likely fracture my friendship with mutual friends.
So let me hear it from you guys, tell me straight.