"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Powersurgeon

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I have this sick obsession with my ex wife. I want to fvck her brains out. I did it at the beginning of the divorce process. She has all this slut traitss that drive me crazy. And I'm not optionless. Right now she doesn't want to because she don't want to cheat on her new beta. What's wrong with me?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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yun-j

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You can bet she is ****ing someone else alongside beta husband.
 

amazingswayze

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You have no self respect. Grow a pair of balls. If you had more options, you wouldn't even consider your ex-wife.

You like having hot sex but do you realize what it's doing to you? It's driving you crazy. Go ghost ASAP.

She's worthless and if you keep it up, you're proving yourself to be worthless as well.

None of us on SoSuave can help you with this one. You have no willpower.

Time to make some major changes.
 

Eco-J

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It's just routine "you don't know what you've got til it's gone" psychology making you think you can't live w/o fvcking her now. There's a reason you're getting divorced - life wasn't so great with her. If you have other options, take advantage of them. Fvcking someone else is the best way to not think about fvcking her.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Albatross953

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Assuming the new guy isn't her affair partner its only a case of any port in a storm for her. Interchangeable commodity packaged provider.
You're making the mistake of assuming she's "happy". Its an act. There is no happy for women like this. She's secure, and that's as good as it gets.

You also need to know, it's over with her for you. The sooner you truly realize that the better off you'll be. I don't personally think you can rush it. But yes go bang some women. Don't knock anybody up.

The red pill really does suck when you start thinking about all the money, emotions, time, resources you wasted. Still the toughest part for me.
 

Powersurgeon

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Albatross953 said:
Assuming the new guy isn't her affair partner its only a case of any port in a storm for her. Interchangeable commodity packaged provider.
You're making the mistake of assuming she's "happy". Its an act. There is no happy for women like this. She's secure, and that's as good as it gets.

You also need to know, it's over with her for you. The sooner you truly realize that the better off you'll be. I don't personally think you can rush it. But yes go bang some women. Don't knock anybody up.

The red pill really does suck when you start thinking about all the money, emotions, time, resources you wasted. Still the toughest part for me.
You seem to now "their kind". It's conforting to know that there is no happiness for women like she.
Fortunately I can't knock anybody, already have a vasectomy.
Thnk you for your comment.
 

Slickster

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This sexual desire for your ex will pass.

Fvck other chicks.

The longer you wait, the longer you will be stuck in this rut.
 

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Powersurgeon said:
I have this sick obsession with my ex wife. I want to fvck her brains out. I did it at the beginning of the divorce process. She has all this slut traitss that drive me crazy. And I'm not optionless. Right now she doesn't want to because she don't want to cheat on her new beta. What's wrong with me?
Nothing is wrong with you, you are a typical heterosexual man lol. Since when does loving good sex indicate there's something wrong with you?

There's this notion from "internet seduction gurus" that a guy should be able to just GET OVER his ex-girlfriend or ex-wife, etc.

Here's the hard reality, sometimes you will never "get over" a person. Sometimes you will look back on your life and realize that you had a good chick and fvcked it up. Or you will look back and realize that XYZ chick gave you the best sex you ever had but you didn't appreciate it at the time in particular.

I still think about my exs lol. There's this one in particular I wish I can go back and fvck just one more time because there's been no chick since then that have provided such a good experience. Unfortunately that won't happen because she hates me, worse than people hate Hitler lol.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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grayclif

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Hates you "worse than people hate Hitler"??? Lol!!!
 

speed dawg

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Hey man....I get you. Sometimes there is something about some women, that just flat turns you on. I had an ex like that....the one that broke me and got me to this site. I got a hard-on just looking at her. She was sh*t in every other facet of her life, but d*mn she had sex appeal.

It's just one more temptation in a long line. Just rub one out and hopefully it goes away.
 
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