"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I need to get over myself

T Money

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I need some advice here. See, i've been reading here and there about you need to make yourself feel like the catch to attract women. So I have, but I think i've become too over-proud of myself. I defenitely have an ego (I always have, i'm a musician) and i'm good looking so I automatically think that every woman wants me. Now, I do get a LOT of eyes walking around. I notice this. Hot girls, old women, young women, everything. Even girls in relationships will give me eyes when I walk by them. This has lead me to believe that every woman is interested in me and I think it's deteriorating on what I have to say when i'm actually having a conversation with them.

I know, I know. It's weak, whatever. I just want to get over myself and actually PROVE that i'm the catch, not just act like it.

Thanks.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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