"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I need to get over myself

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I need some advice here. See, i've been reading here and there about you need to make yourself feel like the catch to attract women. So I have, but I think i've become too over-proud of myself. I defenitely have an ego (I always have, i'm a musician) and i'm good looking so I automatically think that every woman wants me. Now, I do get a LOT of eyes walking around. I notice this. Hot girls, old women, young women, everything. Even girls in relationships will give me eyes when I walk by them. This has lead me to believe that every woman is interested in me and I think it's deteriorating on what I have to say when i'm actually having a conversation with them.

I know, I know. It's weak, whatever. I just want to get over myself and actually PROVE that i'm the catch, not just act like it.

Thanks.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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