"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I Need to Fix This ASAP! help?

needstochange

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Every time I pass by, come across, etc. a HB 10 I kinda get scared, tense, and I like shake a little bit. Not a noticeable shake but like a little shake. How do I see HB 10's as a normal person?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Captain

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By going out and talking to more women, and dating more women.

Every time you see one (10s included), say hi. Build up to conversations, then getting a date/kiss close.

Repeated exposure will desensitise you.

You're 15 at the moment. Go to your local mall (or somewhere like that), and say hi to everyone you walk past. Next time you see someone walk past you, or standing still, start a conversation with them. Not just hot girls your age, but older ladies, men, whatever. You'll become less nervous pretty quickly.

The only way to fix this is to get out and practice.
 

jeffthechef

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Think about this..

1. We're all connected someway. If you think about it, eventually you realize that some person you know may know another person and another. It NEVER ends.

2. We are all created by the same ****. Atoms/molecules/DNA/elements...

3. That girl you shake when you see is no better than the other unattractive girls at your school. The only reason she is is because guys you like make her believe she is.

4. She ****s bombs just like you. She probably has nasty habits like you do.

5. Based on the Declaration of Independence, "We hold these truths to be self-evident, that all men are created equal, that they are endowed by their Creator with certain unalienable Rights, that among these are Life, Liberty, and the Pursuit of Happiness."
Think about that; we are ALL CREATED EQUAL. You are depriving yourself of equality.

What you need to do is begin to treat everyone the same. Treat the unattractive girls like you do the attractive. Same goes for popular or unpopular guys. Even the people you hate you. Once you can view everyone as equals, you will never have this problem. Your perception of others is skewed by your attachment to physical beauty. Consider the part of her body you love most. For example, there's this one girl i know, has huge/round/toned calves/thighs/ass/body. She's toned all over and i'm gaming to get some ass action before i graduate, which i'm pretty sure i will. ANYWAYS, how i think about it is this. Those sexy legs of hers are actually just comprised of skin (made of protein) and the blood, nerves, Lymphatic system, respiratory system, etc. What you're seeing is actually just a bunch of basic elements being pieced together.

You might as well buy a blow up doll that fits your ideal shape and **** it. I understand your problem but Go Deeper. (Heh, that's what she said)
 
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