"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I need to find a way

speakeasy

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I need to find a way to get in with a circle of attractive women. I'm becoming ever more convinced that social networking is the way to go to find a good girl.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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social networking without improving yoruself will do nothing put make you have very strong sholders at the end of the day
 

speakeasy

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Always working on self-improvement. Not a moment goes by without me thinking of how I could do things better.
 

benjiprice

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Why don't you just start going out with a bunch of women you know, instead of just one at a time? I mean, call a bunch up "hey I'm going out with some friends, come along". Meet a new girl? Invite her too.
Women connect with each other pretty easily. Ever see girls exchange contact info with each other at the end of the first night they've meet? I see it all the time. They're weird like that, haha. Let them weave the web, just make sure you're in it :p
 
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