“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I need the most advanced DJ to help me out.

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Dear Fellow Dj's, ahh, thank you for taking the challenge!


I had a Long term relationship (1 year), broken up not to long ago. My ex gf dated a guy who was a DJ perhaps? Well definetly he wasn't afc. They dated for about 2 weeks, from what I heard she treated him like a king, and he dumped her. So here I am now, me, still without a girl friend, without a single pusy to tap in quite a while, horny, and still having onitis with my ex and having feelings for her. What did I do? I didn't give a ****. I became ****y / funny with her (from the help of this place!) So yeah, she seemed to really enjoy it, she began calling me more and more each day, the day she got dumped, what did I do? I ASKED HER OUT. MISTAKE.

Yeah, I know. Let me tell you guys, I took my ex gf's virginity, she is no slut. She's only had sex with me. As much as it hurt her, i told her the truth, I told her how i've partied this past 2 weeks, been with women, etc etc, with her being with her bf, even this made her cry. But some how, I pulled it off correctly and charming at the same time and worked my game on her and EVEN AFTER THE FACT SHE KNEW WHAT I WAS doing, she began to tell me she loved me more and more. So back to what I was saying, she got dumped, I took her in with open arms. I called her the next day (mistake?), she never returned my calls, i felt as something was up, (she was going to go to my apartment that day to fck me but I had to cancell plans due to the fact I hadn't moved back yet ERRR...) So anyways, the next day I call, I get a hold of her, she doesn't really act as if shes thrilled about us, sort of plain, I asked, so when can I see you again (shes grounded because of something from school), she answered in a way she didn't even care. So I said, next year then? she's like I guess. So i say, why don't we just go out later then. (we broke up), she said something and hung up.

Back and forth back and forth. She say's im confusing her. I keep withdrawing and acting upon my DJ knowledge, and back to my feelings. I tell myself to not call her anymore, and then I do. I went from DJ to AFC. AFC to dj....


I want her. but I can't have her. I know I know, NEXT, but, seriously, there may still be hope to f_uck again. So why just not be lazy, and use it as a challenge?


ANYWAYS this is the challenge. She has no bf, she hasn't had my **** in ages, or anyone elses, I AM CERTAIN OF THIS. she is undoubtedly should be pretty damn horny.

I called her tonite, asked her if I could come over, she said she was tired, I began telling her how I had cancer and it was my last day to live, it made her laugh blah blah blah, and she said she couldn't cus shes too tired. She said she really wants to kiss someone, I told her to kiss me, she said "even if we're still just friends?" i agreed (mistake?? =\). anyways. I was hopin to go over and fck the brains out of her tonite, but I mean, wow, I don't give a f_ck if shes tired, if she really wanted to she would jump out of bed right??

so let me ask you guys, what courses should i take exactly if i plan to lay her again, should i keep at it, stop, withdrawl, no contact, have her come to me asking for sex, (which i dunno will work?), or how should i play this off?? I want her to become intersted in me, I don't want to make the mistake of acting needy and what not which I made the mistake of tonite, so yeah, p_ussy is at hand here, something not to mess up with, which is why I decided to come to the forumns seeking help before I go further. need your help guys. thanks
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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what kind of cancer did you tell her you had?
cancer sucks. if it was your last day to live with cancer i don't think tapping into the p***** as you say would be on your mind. probably would be scared s******* or fighting like a m*******.
 

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Why ask for help you are already on the AFC highway. When I finish with a girl everything about her is deleted. Unlike you I do not relish Sloppy Seconds:kick: .
 

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I may be on the AFC highway, but to me, if its possible to still get pssy, why not take it?? Why be a DJ And just say next? when theres a possible fck at hand inthe future?? I Dunno maybe i got a lot to learn, but it's not sloppy seconds. All shes ever done with anyone else after being with me was just kiss.. so yeah.

I was hopin a man of your age would have some great advice but I guess not...
 

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JUST FORGET WHAT I SAID... im not going to try to be with her anymore. I sent her a text message and she just completely ignored me. I am moving on.. well, I said this many times before, but I really am... why .. WHY!!

out of no where suddenly I notice my ex a cold witch, whos a player...
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I just came back from her house. we had sex. i guess i didnt need ur guys help after all.
 

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how is the cancer?
 

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I had a Long term relationship (1 year), broken up not to long ago. My ex gf dated a guy who was a DJ perhaps? Well definetly he wasn't afc. They dated for about 2 weeks, from what I heard she treated him like a king, and he dumped her. So here I am now, me, still without a girl friend, without a single pusy to tap in quite a while, horny, and still having onitis with my ex and having feelings for her. What did I do? I didn't give a ****. I became ****y / funny with her (from the help of this place!) So yeah, she seemed to really enjoy it, she began calling me more and more each day, the day she got dumped, what did I do? I ASKED HER OUT. MISTAKE.




There is a big difference,and a notable one as well, of being C/F just to hit on women and gain an upper hand, and doing it becuase that's your personality.

your problem is you place importance, wayyyyy too much importance, on having a Girl Friend. Why? What do you do in your spare time? What do you do for a living? is that what you want to do? Are you in school? Are you doing good in school? That's the **** you need to be focus on. You watch too much Luguna beach... don't get so caught up in the romanticsm of dating that you place all the emphesis on it.

Yeah, I know. Let me tell you guys, I took my ex gf's virginity, she is no slut.
To quote Pook:

'Virgin' is a weasel word. The atmosphere of such word has always been the same, a virgin is pure, innocent, and so on. But a strict definition defines it solely to PHYSICALITY and that of the genitals. A woman may do everything, except slip a penis in her vagina, and may call herself a virgin. Yet, she is not pure, innocent, and such. The 'virgin' definition is too limited. There are guys that have had sex yet still are BLIND to sexuality, they are still AFCs and quite innocent and naive. Then there are guys who may not have had sex but are FULLY AWARE of sexuality, have been stung by it in consciousness, understand and play the part. Which of the two is more of a 'virgin'? Which of the two is innocent? This just shows that our words and labels sometimes are not precise enough to aptly describe Nature


Virgin does not equal non slut. Alot of sex doesn't mean slut. I bet if she was banging your brains out every night she wouldn't be a slut would she?

Women-Condemning is far easier than Self-Realization


-pook.... again

I told her how i've partied this past 2 weeks, been with women, etc etc, with her being with her bf, even this made her cry.


Stop Microanalyzing.. this is one of your many ovbious problems.. you are looking for signs,... any signs, that she likes you. This what the AFC does. He thinks too damn much. First of all, why are you telling her anything? Secondly, you are lying.

First you said you had no other *****.. then you say you have been with other women.. which is it? The only person you are lying to is yourself. Plus there is a big difference between being with other women and actually spinning plates. If you were spinning two other plates, youw ould have dorpped her a LONG time ago.



But some how, I pulled it off correctly and charming at the same time and worked my game on her and EVEN AFTER THE FACT SHE KNEW WHAT I WAS doing, she began to tell me she loved me more and more.


First off, i can tell neither of you can't possibly be grown. These are Jr High games you are playing.. and that's not an insult if you are in Jr high, but other wise, listen and grow up.

She doesn't love you. You don't love her. She is tossing around a word she heard on TV that she has no earthly idea what intells. She wants, or at least giving you the preception that she wants you, to confirm her attractiveness to her. Women are love seekers.. once you give in and convert to AFCdom, it's over.

YOu might even win the battle but you are well on the way to loosing the war. Lets say all this AFC crap works and you get her "back".. acting the way you are now, honestly how long do you see it working? I say over and under is 3 weeks.


So back to what I was saying, she got dumped, I took her in with open arms.

Translation: Yeah my hobbies include dumpster diving for pvssy...

You are literarly taking leftovers. This guy saw what I see already.. this girl is a childish cvnt and said **** it, I can do better. When I date, I date my equal.. I will **** anything that looks good in a skirt, but I only date equals. She is not his equal, but you have put her above a mountain and worhsiped her.

What you are basically saying is, even though you told her you were getting with other women, which is an ovbious lie, that you have absolutly no other options, no other alternatives, than to take back this..thing


I called her the next day (mistake?), she never returned my calls, i felt as something was up, (she was going to go to my apartment that day to fck me but I had to cancell plans due to the fact I hadn't moved back yet ERRR...) So anyways, the next day I call, I get a hold of her, she doesn't really act as if shes thrilled about us, sort of plain, I asked, so when can I see you again (shes grounded because of something from school), she answered in a way she didn't even care. So I said, next year then? she's like I guess. So i say, why don't we just go out later then. (we broke up), she said something and hung up.


You wanted to know why you don't take any available ***** you can get.. this is eXACTLY why.... All ***** isn't gold. your dignity comes first. You pwned it all for a peice of (bad) ass... becuase no sex is good until you have done is for a couple of years (trust me).. besides the point. This is what happens when she has conrmed that you have no other optinos, she has no other compitiion for you, you are no challenge.. beating super mario brothers is harder than getting your IL up


Back and forth back and forth. She say's im confusing her. I

Yeah about WTF she was thinking getting with you in the first place..


keep withdrawing and acting upon my DJ knowledge, and back to my feelings. I tell myself to not call her anymore, and then I do. I went from DJ to AFC. AFC to dj....

no, YOU WENT FROM AFC to Super AFC.. you don't have a shred of DJ in your body. YOu might know a few lines and a few methods but you aren't a DJ. not even close.

A true DJ a) has options, to the point where he doens't take girls that show Low IL by dumping her and b) have better things to do than to entertain this cvnt



I want her. but I can't have her. I know I know, NEXT, but, seriously, there may still be hope to f_uck again. So why just not be lazy, and use it as a challenge

ANYWAYS this is the challenge. She has no bf, she hasn't had my **** in ages, or anyone elses, I AM CERTAIN OF THIS. she is undoubtedly should be pretty damn horny.

I called her tonite, asked her if I could come over, she said she was tired, I began telling her how I had cancer and it was my last day to live, it made her laugh blah blah blah, and she said she couldn't cus shes too tired. She said she really wants to kiss someone, I told her to kiss me, she said "even if we're still just friends?" i agreed (mistake?? =\). anyways. I was hopin to go over and fck the brains out of her tonite, but I mean, wow, I don't give a f_ck if shes tired, if she really wanted to she would jump out of bed right??

so let me ask you guys, what courses should i take exactly if i plan to lay her again, should i keep at it, stop, withdrawl, no contact, have her come to me asking for sex, (which i dunno will work?), or how should i play this off?? I want her to become intersted in me, I don't want to make the mistake of acting needy and what not which I made the mistake of tonite, so yeah, p_ussy is at hand here, something not to mess up with, which is why I decided to come to the forumns seeking help before I go further. need your help guys. thanks


The only thing I can tell you, which you aren't going to do because you are looking for a short term quick fix, is read, dicet the DJ bible. YOu need it. you understand nothing. YOu don't get it. At all. It's bigger than this peice of ass.

I will leave you with this thought.. say you got back iwth her.. do you honestly think she will be faithful if her EX that dumped her came calling one day and wanted to see her at his house?

Case closed.
 
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