"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I Need Testers For My eBook

Roulette

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For the last few months I've been working on an eBook (and audio program) regarding Long Term Relationships. This particular subject isn't discussed much within the seduction community, unfortunately. I've personally always been more of a relationship kind of guy and enjoy them immensely.

I've found that a lot of guys can't seem to keep a girl. The woman will like them for a short while, but the attraction quickly fades. So, this is my answer to that problem.

If you want a free test copy, just leave your email in this thread, or PM it to me. After you read it, send me a short testimonial. I'll be putting it up on the sales page when I eventually put it up for sale.

The eBook deals with:

  • Transitioning into an LTR
  • Selecting a Quality Girl
  • Maintaining Long Term Attraction
  • Traits of an Attractive Man
  • Relationship Killers
  • Setting Boundaries
  • Rewarding Good Behavior
  • Punishing Bad Behavior
  • Dealing With Drama
  • Sexual Power
  • Tons more...
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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P.S: What are your opinions on the marketability of something like this? If you were me, how would you market it?
 

Get Busy Livin'

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Set up a website, buy a program such as TrafficBlazer, and set up a register form for members.

Send members small teasers from your eBook and then send them a link from which to purchase it from.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Looks like I am heading into a comitted relationship soon, so I can put the technology to the test. Please send. Thank you.
 

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I sent out the eBook to everyones email a few hours ago. Your testimonials will be greatly appreciated.

Kudos,
Matt
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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here is what alot of guys don't seem to grasp.

when I was an AFCI came here to this site, to figure out how to get a Girlfriend. one in particular.

NOW.. any girl I am fvcking would be happy to settle down with me, even girls I have discarded would be happy to more than likey... but why would I WANT to. None have proven themselves better than the others.

a man is only as faithful as his options. if you have alot of options....a LTR isn't a goal any longer, it's something that happens when one of your many plates keeps spinning harder and faster than the others and you say 'damn. i like this plate"

most guys take one girl and carve the damn peg until it somewhat fits in a round hole. Why not work on yourself and your game, give yourself the options and wait for the right fit?
 

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backbreaker said:
NOW.. any girl I am fvcking would be happy to settle down with me, even girls I have discarded would be happy to more than likey... but why would I WANT to. None have proven themselves better than the others.
Well that's good for you man. I'm happy for you.

backbreaker said:
a man is only as faithful as his options. if you have alot of options....a LTR isn't a goal any longer, it's something that happens when one of your many plates keeps spinning harder and faster than the others and you say 'damn. i like this plate"
Projecting your own personal preferences and views on others is a fallacy. Argument By Selective Observation to be precise. It's awesome that you're such a stud man. Again, I'm happy for you.

backbreaker said:
most guys take one girl and carve the damn peg until it somewhat fits in a round hole.
Argument By Selective Observation.

backbreaker said:
Why not work on yourself and your game, give yourself the options and wait for the right fit?
Which is... exactly what I teach in the book.

Kudos,
Matt
 

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I'm a serial monogamist by my own standards. When I'm single it typically lasts for a few months where I date multiple women. I select the best fit for me and try to establish a real LTR, though I continue to keep my options open for the first 6 months.

So far I've been in 4 LTRs that have lasted over 2 yrs. You probably cant teach me a thing about LTRs and you seem to be after money with your proposal.

I would suggest that anyone who wants LTR info (for free) to open a thread on this site and PM me the link. If I cant answer with experience I will try to keep it open for those who can to pick up on it. The search function on this site is free as well. The whole idea of this community (at least for me) is the free exchange of ideas and experiences. LTR info isn't popular but it is available with a little bit of searching. No one should be charged for this type of information Roulette especially without any posts proving your knowledge.
 

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I just sent the book out to everyone for free. They're testing it out for me and will be providing honest feedback.

Yes, I will be selling it eventually and I make no apologies for that. Will I be spamming this forum with ads about the book? Absolutely not.

If selling information is unethical, so be it.
 

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I wouldn't mind checking it out, and I'd be glad to let you know what I think.

gmillar at gmail dot com
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Roulette said:
P.S: What are your opinions on the marketability of something like this?
If you can spike mens interest enough to shell out $$$ on the topic of LTR's you might want to see if any eskimos need ice.

Mind you , you got Oprah, Dr Phil and most of the mainstream media in general trying it's hardest to keep every guy whos dumb enough to listen in a LTR and telling us all how "important" they are to back your wares so you still got a chance of making a buck maybe.
Roulette said:
This particular subject isn't discussed much within the seduction community
Yeah funny that.












I don't think it's the nature of any man to be monogamous."- Marlon Brando.
 

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please send it to irunforfun at gmail.com

i'll promise i'll provide detailed feedback upon reading it.

thanks
 
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