"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I need some SERIOUS advice....

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OK. Long story short.

I'm dating a Mormon...

I really like her, shes sexy and we have a lot of fun.

She just told me today thats she's a mormon. Nothing else, other then marriage is for eternity not 'till death do us part'.

So I did some research, and Mormons aren't allowed to do anything sexual before marriage.

What do I do??? If I even want to kiss her I have to marry her....

Normally I would say next, but is there anyway to corrupt her haha, thats bad, but its how I feel.

Haha, if no one has gone threw this, then I will likely just stay friends with her...
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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A Mormon Ideal

Anything that stirs passions or sexual thoughts should be avoided. Being all alone late at night is just not a good idea, in my opinion. I recommend getting home early, staying out of parked cars (try the 2.3-second rule, humorously offered by one General Authority: get out of the car within 2.3 seconds after the wheels have stopped moving), going on double dates, avoiding R-rated movies or other material that is suggestive or morally offensive, and so forth. Hand-holding and brief, non-passionate kisses are O.K., but stay out of situations where kissing or necking becomes the major activity. And touching someone else in the "strike zone" - especially in private areas (you know, the places you need to keep covered with a swimming suit at a "decent" pool or beach) - is wrong. Touching that stimulates sexual excitement (often called "petting") is wrong.
 

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From what I know, Mormons are one of those religions that puts God before anything else, including one's self (someone correct me if I'm wrong). If I were you, I'd run like hell. If a chick's religion or God is more important than the man she marries, the relationship is going to be a miserable one. She'll be consulting God and the members of the church before she consults you on anything.
 

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:/ Um, well Christians arn't suppose to have sex until their married and do they? NO!
See if she'll do anything with you and if not then decide if she is 'The One'. And if not next her.
 

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Bussey... she's probably starving for it.

Try and corrupt her. Do pretty much everything the manual says, but in reverse. :D

If she keeps stopping you, then just next her.

Too bad, her ideals are the most productive for society.


Cheers
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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As with all religions, Mormons vary on how devout they are.

Just ask her in what ways her religion will affect your relationship.
 

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^^^^

They call that rape in other states.

Treat her like anyone else. If she's up for it fine, if not and that's what you're after, move on, simple.
 

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Originally posted by Bussey
OK. Long story short.

I'm dating a Mormon...

I really like her, shes sexy and we have a lot of fun.

She just told me today thats she's a mormon. Nothing else, other then marriage is for eternity not 'till death do us part'.

So I did some research, and Mormons aren't allowed to do anything sexual before marriage.

What do I do??? If I even want to kiss her I have to marry her....

Normally I would say next, but is there anyway to corrupt her haha, thats bad, but its how I feel.

Haha, if no one has gone threw this, then I will likely just stay friends with her...
I have had sex with several mormons. They are no different from any other subjigated religious types...look at the catholic girls as being known as the biggest sluts from catholic school.
 

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repression + starvation + guilt

Watch out, you might have a hellcat on your hands once all that repressed sexuality is let loose :D

Enjoy!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Haha, alright majority seem to think I should just play it out see what happens.
It explains why I never get more then a hug, but they have been lasting longer... maybe more sexual tension will get her shell to break.

Anyone else have any insight?
 

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Originally posted by Mojo604
Get her drunk :D
Mormons don't drink, do drugs or intake caffeine... explains why coffee date didn't work well.. She had hot chocolate.
 

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Originally posted by Bussey
Mormons don't drink, do drugs or intake caffeine... explains why coffee date didn't work well.. She had hot chocolate.
oh my....


NEXT!
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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It sucks balls! Haha, I blew off two other girls for this one. :mad:

This is Canada tho... Utah is all Mormans... Canada is all open minded, non religious, hot chicks... Frustrating!
 

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Proceed slowly. Start with a kiss, then extend it to a french kiss. Then start grabbing, but don't be too aggressive either. Grab her breasts lightly, and make sure she likes it. After she's comfortable with your touch, proceed more, but don't rape. Give her orgasm first, when she's fully clothed if possible (she's unlikely to take her clothes off for the first time).

When she says "no", it really means no. Don't rape her. Just make sure she's comfortable around you. Also, don't do this in public, make sure you guys are alone in a locked dark room. If she likes your touch, she will let you proceed.

It takes time, but everybody likes sex. She will eventually give up.
 

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Did you not read anything???

I CANT EVEN KISS HER!!! But I'll try man. I'm sure she can give a bit. She wasn't always a Morman, 3 years ago, she was huge into drinkign and drugs... so I know theres a normal girl somewhere in there.
 

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Originally posted by Bussey
Did you not read anything???

I CANT EVEN KISS HER!!! But I'll try man. I'm sure she can give a bit. She wasn't always a Morman, 3 years ago, she was huge into drinkign and drugs... so I know theres a normal girl somewhere in there.
You don't have to start by kissing. You can start by groping her when you guys are hugging.
 

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Nevada is right next to Utah (Mormon mecca) I find that it either goes one of two ways with morman girls

1. She's not practicing and is all over the place drinking, clubbing, smoking, having sex... all of these are qualities you should look for in a morman girl because they're like NORMAL girls.

2. They're practicing, church on sunday, they try to convert YOU to mormanism and other then that they don't do much 'partying' as you know it.

When I find out I'm dealing with number one i'm mildy interested. When I meet a number two, my IL plummets like a meteor through the atmosphere and I avoid them like the plaugue.
 
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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