Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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i need some quick advice

guitarmatt18

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i let this girl use my calculator for her final so i saved her butt on that one. i get online later, go to her profile, make a joke and tell her she owes me. she thanks me, lols a lot, and then asks me 'what do i have to do to make it up to you.'

i know she likes me already. i've been in this 'what do i have to do to make it up to you' situation before and i figure i'll figure the right response eventually that has equal balance. i haven't. most remarks have come out a little too blatant or i seem disinterested. anything good to say that isn't straight forward yet is subtle enough to strike some sexual interest?

btw we are on winter break for college which is 3 weeks so i wont see her until next year. anything good? thanks in advance.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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vagrant

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I'm just hoping you took the final with a calculator. =p

Just be like..

Well I'm pretty sure you know by now that I'm more of a giver than a taker, so I say I'll give you a chance to hang out with me for one day.

If she's cool with it, tell her when and then you're on your own where you want to go with this girl!~
 

guitarmatt18

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damn that was smooth as hellll. i like how i just posted on your topic a min ago. haha then you helped me. thanks.
 
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