"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Ace90Player

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How much money would you spend on a date? How much is too much? Now I just want to know some of the opinions of some seasoned Don Juans.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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i tend not to spend any money at all on first date, in fact you shouldn't, 7 out of 10 times the date would be a complete waste of time because she doesn't fit your requirement, and if you happen to buy her anything, a waste of money

and there are 100000 other much better ways than buying dinner for a chick you probably won't see again

i dont spend any money at all until third or fourth date, when im certain she is worth my time and future dates
 
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