"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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i need some new headphones

Arizona iced tea

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my favorite earbuds are going on me, i need some new ones. anyone have a suggestion on some good headphones? im kinda set on earbuds, but im not sure...

thanks.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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nonchalant

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Grado SR60s
 

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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Etymotic Research. Amazing sound quality, great sound cancelation, small, comfortable. Quality.
 

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whistler said:
Shure E2c
I've had the E2c's but prefer the Shure E3g's... they are smaller and fit better into the ear, and the passive noise-reductance is great. They're the same as the E3c's but have a 6" shorter cord.
 

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thanks for all of the replies!

after some reasearch, im kinda set on the V-Moda Vibe's. not only do they have good sound, but they are probably the nicest looking earbuds i have seen.

kinda pricey though :/
 
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