"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I need some help.

K-Rock

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Alright, here's my situation. I'm in the tenth grade, and I am no DJ I'll tell you that right now. I just don't know what to do, all my friends have had sex, and they are always ripping on me for being the only virgin in the group. Like, I think I'm an above average looking guy, and I've been told I'm pretty damn funny. I think the problem is I'm too nice, and well...I'm a pretty big *****,like, I can't even come close to touching a girl without getting all sweaty and ****. All the girls wanna be my friend, but nothing more, even if they did, I wouldn't know a **** me, to a **** off.

If anybody has any advice for me it would be extremely appreciated.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Dude,what you need right now is not advice from anyone on these boards.

You have to read the bible,the link is at the bottom of every forum page,and you have to read the articles.Those should really help you take off into the life of a DJ.
 

08aisaac

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Dude, they moved the bible from the top to the bottom. No wonder I couldn't find it.
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And download the bible. Read it all. I read the whole thing. All my interactions with women have changed. To them hitting on me shamlessly. Seriously, I'm the guy a lot of guys hate. Also in tenth grade here.
Read the bible though.
 
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